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Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

Polishing the Pulpit…Game Changer.

Sitting here in the Atlanta airport, I just told Glenn that I’m excited to be doing PTP with him. I believe it is our 25th year to do this together. If I’m right about that, it means the women’s program at Polishing the Pulpit is 25 years old, as well. Attending the first year of the women’s program,  there were 12 of us and Hannah, at 14, was the sole worker in the “children’s program”. But it encouraged me, phenomenally. I am encouraged that much, times about 300, this year, since that’s the amazing growth the women’s program has experienced. I don’t know exactly how many of the 7000 or so people who will attend this year are women, but it’s a bunch of them. Digging Deep has been a big part of the program, for me, now for 16 years. I can’t even, in reflection, wrap my mind around how much PTP, through Digging Deep, has changed the landscape of my life. Life without the dig would not be the same. I’d have a lot more leisure time (or, more likely, I’d fill it with something else…likely something not as useful.)…I’d have real relationships with fewer sisters. I might not throw my back out every August (ha.) And, although, I’d probably be doing something I love, I would not know as much of the Word (though what I know is still a relatively piddling knowledge. “But then shall I know even as also I am known” (1 Corinthians 13: 12). I am sure Digging Deep will help me get there. 

I think my marriage is better because of PTP. I think my children are stronger because of PTP. I think my grandchildren are more excited about being Christians one day because of PTP. I think I’m more connected to my extended family because of PTP. (It’s a  physical family reunion within a spiritual one.) I think I meditate/strategize about souls more because of PTP. I believe I love God more deeply because of PTP. I know I have more laugh lines because of PTP. 

If you haven’t yet been able to go and it is possible for you, make it happen. You can read about the upcoming events here: https://polishingthepulpit.com/

And, if I can help you, let me know. Once you experience it, the importance of that week in your year will be obvious to you. Its positive ramifications are immediate and eternal, all at once. I hope I see you in some future PTP session. 

 

Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

The List: Babies have to Grow Up!… Part 4

Here’s the 4th little segment about helping our “baby sisters.” New Christians don’t come into the church walking the walk perfectly or talking the talk without a stutter. Here are some more ideas to help us take their hands and help them through the developmental stages: 

13. Invite her to do Digging Deep with you. I’ve just done this with a girlfriend here in town. She made a facebook page with an alias name just so she can be in the DD facebook group. (She had not been on FB prior to this, and she doesn’t really want to do the whole social media thing. Her FB name is so “hippie” that my DD “watch team” all contacted to say “This is an AI bot, right? We shouldn’t let ‘it’ in?”) But she’s in! She’s coming to the local study next Monday night and she’s probably the most excited one coming. And DD has converted people! It’s just the Word and the Word is powerful. Invite, invite, invite!

14. Be sure you make time to study with her. Start with the Lord’s supper. 1 Corinthians 15 says “some are weak and sick among you.” Guess who these people were? They were the men and women who didn’t take the Lord’s Supper with discernment. Start with a study of the Lord’s Supper and write some things down for her…thoughts on which she can meditate during the Lord’s Supper. Help take her from the NICU to a place of wellness. She needs you! Then go on and study the book of John and then Acts with her. In the process, you will find out what she needs most. Go, in the Word, wherever that need is. Always start your study with “Do you have questions for me?” Make sure you give her Bible reading assignments for in-between your studies with her.

 

15. Encourage and help her to attend some rich seminar with you, like Polishing the Pulpit or Bible camp or a great ladies day. If there’s a lot of expense involved, consider asking your elders to help you in making it possible for her. If she can, she should help pay for it, too. She needs skin in the game. (P.S. Polishing the Pulpit (www.polishingthepit.com) is the best growth starter I have ever seen! If your congregation has PTP365, get her connected)

16. Often, those we convert come into the body with financial needs Go with these new sisters to speak with the elders, if you have them, about these needs. This is tricky, of course. We don’t want to convert people to a financial welfare system, but a spiritual one. But we minister to those in the body. Godly elders will have the wisdom needed to help in the best ways and to advise you about personally helping in these cases. 

Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

Small World in the Church

I love the body of Christ. I’ve said it before, but it’s a small world in the church. 

Wednesday night, we flew into Boston for a few days respite before we speak at this event in Tilton, New Hampshire. We had googled the church in Boston and had decided to go to the Bible class at the Roxbury church. It was a warm reception and a great study from Romans 5. They even gave us little gift bags with great evangelism tools and cookies. And they gave us lots of handshakes and hugs. 

Afterwards, the subject of Polishing the Pulpit came up organically and I said “Have you ever heard of “Polishing the Pulpit”? 

“Oh yes! Just a minute and let me get some people who went this year!” 

I was able to hug a sister, then, who had wandered in the “Wilderness” at Sevierville with me just last week! She explained to me how their first trip to PTP was in 2017 and two people traveled there together. “This year we had a group of 20!” 

“I didn’t make it to your sessions, but I was hanging out with that other lady (I love her!) that writes the books. What was her name?…You know, the one who wrote the book…let’s see…something about a dragon…”

I said “Oh you mean How to Train Your Dragon?”

“Yeah, that’s it!” 

“Well, you mean Celine Sparks!” 

“Yeah, that’s her. I just love her!” 

Then I got to tell her…”Well, you are not going to believe it, but she is my sister. I mean she is my sister in the flesh, too!” 

“Are you for real?!” 

Then she had to call over somebody else and tell her and we had to start exchanging our information and I had to give her a Digging Deep book…”

By the time we left, I just about had them saying “Roll Tide!” and planning trips to Alabama. 

I love the body of Christ. And we just might have a group one day soon in Massachusetts. I think that will be a new state for Digging Deep!

…And next time, more of “Babies Have to Grow Up”

Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

The List: “Babies Have to Grow Up.”

photo credit: Traci Sproule

 

Polishing the Pulpit is in the books in Missouri and now in Tennessee. I am still in the hotel in Sevierville. Although I distributed hundreds of Digging Deep books, there’s a sense in which I’ll be going home with much more than I brought with me. If you attended, you will (or have), too. My heart is more full of the will to serve. My head is to capacity of ideas to facilitate the spread of HIS fulness. My spirit is just so very grateful to Him for the way he has encouraged through His people. I want to be better and there are about seven thousand other people who have the same will. The Colleys are deeply indebted to Allen Webster, David Barker, Luke Griffin, Mark Howell, Eddy Gilpin and the elderships that have overseen, for the 30-plus year commitment to serving the church through this, the most vibrant and effective event for Christ, of which we have ever been a part. What a privilege to have been in attendance this year!

Some have requested this list from the lecture “Babies Have to Grow Up”. It’s a list of some of the things we can do to help our brand new sisters to be nurtured; to have the spiritual needs of infant Christians met as we help them “grow up” in Him. If you are one of the many faithful women who are working in “labor and delivery” in the kingdom of Christ, you know that there are some pretty volatile days after the new birth (John 3). Some of our baby sisters are needing  spiritual life support. 

Watch here for a few installments of ideas—ideas to help “grow” the babies from the self-focused, crying stages of infancy, to the happy, serving stages of spiritual maturity. 

  1. Stamped and addressed cards. Sometimes you may have studied with the sweet young sister and others do not know her nearly as well as you do. Address a stack of ten note cards to the baby sister (not all one pack of cards—make them different). Get someone to help you, if possible, to address, so that all the handwriting will not be exactly the same.  Stamp them. Take them to worship with you and give them to dependable sisters and ask them to write personal notes of encouragement in the cards, and mail them. You may even want to put a “date to send’ in pencil on the back the envelope, so that all the cards will not be received in the same week.
  2. When you study with the next person you’re trying to bring to Christ, invite the new sister to come along. The blessings here are several and they are solidifying. 
  3. Make sure you KEEP studying with the new sister. Ask her to read, with you, a book of the Bible—say the book of John. Maybe just three chapters each week and then meet up weekly, if possible, to discuss the verses read and take lessons for her life. Perhaps your elders, like mine, will love for you to meet with new sisters, during one of the Bible class times, when everyone is already there at the building, and talk with her, about the scriptures. 
  4. Most of us know what “secret sisters” is: when each lady is designated a certain sister for whom she will do acts of kindness in secrecy, until the end of the month or quarter or year. If you do this program, be sure your “baby sister” gets one of the MOST spiritual sisters in the whole game. This kind of sister will send spiritual messages, secretly purchase and give spiritual books that are sound, and gift her with coffee cards with the specification that she take a sister to the coffee shop, etc…
  5. Call or text her often. Set your phone reminder to do this. Many times you will say “Just checking in. Is the cough better?” or “Hey! Did you make it back home?” or “Just making sure you know about the fellowship meal.” But sometimes, be sure you say “How is your walk with the Lord?” or “Do you feel like you are growing, spiritually?” 

More next time! 

Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

This CARDIGAN!

Promised a pic. So here it is. It’ll be on the site (www.thecolleyhouse.org) on the 19th of July and I will have a few in Branson next week. It’s 58% cotton and 38% modal and 4% spandex. Mine is 27 inches long. (I love long!) It’s roomy, but I would still say it’s true to size. It has just a little stretch–enough to give with movement, but not enough to look extremely casual. It’s a true black with a khaki/gold embroidery. I  love it!

Please ask the Father to bless the upcoming PTP conferences. I’m not the “counter” but I’d say we will be in the midst of around 8K Christians in these combined conferences. I can’t even grasp the wonder of that kind of togetherness for the kingdom people. Please pray for every message delivered and every activity. Pray for safety for the travelers and for tender hearts in every room. Pray for the kids, that all the fun and games will be wonderful and under the great umbrella of putting a faith in them that will take them through the testing ground of life and to the throne of eternal life. Jesus loves the little children! (https://www.facebook.com/502291383/videos/pcb.10159173392501384/1313854342902868). Pray for Celine and Drew as they do all the things they for for the littles (and for others, too!) Pray for Digging Deep, that it can grow in every way that is His will. Pray for digging souls, especially those who are outside of Christ. There are lots of diggers in that category.

Pray for me. Is that okay to say? It’s sure not all about me. (One of my lessons next week is called “7 Suggestions for Overcoming the ‘Me Mentality’.) But it seems I  constantly need his grace and strength these days, more than ever.  I want to stay the course, but on some days, I am so weak and faltering. As I study for these lessons at Branson, I realize, even more than ever, my great dependence on Him, my constant need for forgiveness (that He constantly provides)  and the mess that I’d be without Him!  I’m praying for you, too… every digger.  I am wholly convicted of the power that’s in our  pleadings.

And, knowing I will leave someone out, especially pray for my little friend, Eli, who is battling for his life (…we go way back!), my friend Dan, who is far from home and battling a rare form of cancer, my friend Rayford, whose kidneys are failing (but there is hope), and my friend John, who keeps struggling after being hit (as a pedestrian) by a van. And I know you are praying for the mothers and fathers and families in and around Kerr County, Texas. I keep trying to put myself in the shoes of the mothers who left their little girls at camp, never to see them alive again. I can’t go there for long. Cody Michael and Project Unify has boots on the ground there now. The devastation is big. You can find info about this work here: https://www.1615ministries.com/project-unify.  As I understand it, Project Unify is a work under the elders of the New Antioch church in Hillsboro, Alabama.

Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

16 More Days!

It’s only 16 days till Digging Deep reveal time! The books are finished! I do not have one in hand yet, but I asked the printers to put one in the mail for me, so I can see it. Glenn and I are picking them up from the printer in a couple of weeks on our way to Branson PTP. I do have shirts and hoodies already in hand. and we are excited about a couple of new items this year. 

We also can’t wait to unveil the second edition of Caleb and Rebekah Colley’s congregational and family Bible study materials. It’s called “That We May Believe “ and it’s going to be ready by Branson time as well! You can read about it here: (https://thecolleyhouse.org/?s=New+study+series). If you study this with your kids, I can attest, as grandmother to two who have already done much of it, they will have a pretty good handle on every book of the Bible.  I can’t wait to put this in the hands of a couple of families I know.

I know that we, as women, do not make the decisions for a whole congregation, but I am hoping the books can help lots of churches grow in spirit. It’s an entire year’s curriculum for those who use it that way!

Next, I want to tell you about the wonderful and unexpected thing that happened last week-end in Caruthersville, Missouri. They’d asked me to come have an informal discussion about Digging Deep with some local women. When I walked in, I could tell that several—like maybe 10—congregations were represented, from about four different states. There was a registration table and a Digging Deep bulletin board. Songs of praise and prayers and Scripture readings had been planned. Someone had made bracelets for every single woman and, when I finished speaking, I went back to the fellowship hall and there was a feast, complete with a Digging Deep cake and some of the best strawberry cornbread I have ever put in my mouth! (Well, maybe it was the only strawberry cornbread I’ve ever eaten, but still you would sass your grandma!)

When I got back to the hotel room, from this little informal talk, my husband said, “What took you so long?”  

“Well, these Caruthersville women really know how to talk!”

Don’t forget, if you are not going to Branson, there will be a video posted at 1:00 pm on July 19th on the Digging Deep facebook page and on www.thecolleyhouse.org. All new materials will be available on the website beginning then. There’s always a free download, as well. I can’t wait to dig with you. Invite friends and we will have a great year toward heaven together! 

Finally, I love these words from Katie Curd. The Word is simply powerful in our lives! 

I have enjoyed this study so much. I’ve been working ahead when I have the chance this summer because of a variety of things like my son being at AP Camp, being a counselor at our Bible Camp here, and VBS. Tonight, I’ve been reading the powerful words about Mary Magdalene in chapter 12. Cindy mentions a prayer she prays about being thankful for material blessings but also praying that they never get in the way of serving faithfully. She says it has helped her to not let material things get in the way of being a keeper at home. I’m so thankful for all the material things we have, but I’m much more thankful for this tonight…sitting at our table digging, with a three year old on my lap with a book and my husband working on a sermon. May I never let things get in the way of my job as a wife and mother.