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Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

Reminders I Needed at FHU

Today, Glenn and I were able to attend the Bible lectures at Freed-Hardeman University. Rich in fellowship and faith, the atmosphere was encouraging beyond what I’d anticipated. Everywhere I walked, there were women who wanted to talk about Digging Deep and it made me so thankful for the Word that binds us together in a unity that is the unique tie that will extend beyond this lifetime. Everywhere I went, there were those who asked about the members of my physical family and who told me that they had been in fervent prayer for our family. It made me so thankful for the active advocacy of Jesus in the throne room of the Father, on behalf of His faithful. Everywhere I went there was laughter and the sound of Christianity in gathering places. It made me thankful for the assembling church that will finally come together around the throne. 

There was a sister there who is headed for surgery in the morning, but who chose that encouraging atmosphere just prior to a day when she will either receive good news or resign herself to a long road of illness ahead. There were sisters who asked me to pray for specific things, like a husband who just became an elder in a precarious church situation, or foster children whose futures are hanging in the balance as courts make decisions, or grandchildren who are being raised by parents with mental illnesses, or for the steadfast faith of a son who is headed for USMC boot camp in this volatile world. There were heavy things to add to my prayer list last night as I redeemed my voucher, given through the Word, to beg to God, Himself. The heavy cross is the burden that, in turn, carries all heavy things to the One who lifts burdens.  Nothing I could do on earth could merit what I can do before heaven; not by a long shot.

I’m so glad I went. At the beginning of the day, I thought “What in the world am I thinking? …Driving seven hours today to walk around a crowded campus and listen to lessons I could hear online while making some headway on this house or on the Easter dress I’m trying to make for Eliza or the bridal shower we’re planning this weekend or the four retreat lessons I’m trying to prepare for the following weekend or the Digging Deep lesson that will be discussed on the podcast in just one week…???   WHAT am I thinking, going there, where Glenn and I always see lots of old (I mean truly elderly) and eccentric men and women who claim they were classmates of ours? I mean, do I really want to do this? 

As we prayed tonight before falling asleep (well, at least Glenn has fallen soundly asleep beside me here) we praised Him for allowing us to go and be encouraged. I know there are problems in the church. (There’s humanity in the church. Human sin is always the problem.) I know there are always plenty of things we could be making or accomplishing that will all be burned up one day. I get it that we cannot do it all. But I am thankful for days like today that show me, in a succinct lesson, the good that lives on in the body of the Lord. I’m thankful for the grandchildren who jumped up and down when they saw me in Auditorium A and who sat beside me while their papa was speaking. I am most thankful for the glad day, after I’ve left the planet, when we will jump for joy again and sit together again and sing the song of Moses and the Lamb!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       

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A Few, Very Biased Thoughts…

She just keeps pushing them, putting in the effort to keep them going, switching hands every now and then, breathing deep and pushing them again. This morning Hannah  woke up with an achy throat and body and she asked herself if she could really adult today. Then she put in a day of school, took them to piano and karate and gave the meds to the one who is getting past strep. She talked with their doctor and she postponed her own doctor appointment to keep their “swing” going. I asked her last night about doing something fun with a friend. She said “What would that even look like right now?’ She spoke twice last weekend at a ladies day and is gearing up to go speak four times at a retreat where we both will speak (and Colleyanna will, too.) Somehow she got one ready for a 59/60 on the Bible bowl test and she has three who are, altogether, doing 13 events at Lads to Leaders. Her house sometimes looks like a tornado has hit (like mine) and, on most weeks, a big colony of ants could probably live a long time in her van. She had to go around the outside of her house for one of the kids and make sure every window was locked last night before bed. Tonight she is vigilant with one who is afraid of the storms outside. If they only knew how big are the storms from which she daily protects them. (All good parents do this!) She travels four-plus hours (in a day) every other week to get the kids to an important appointment. She stays an extra 45 minutes or an hour after worship services so her kids can play foursquare and Frozen with the children of other faithful people. She has struggled through some hard things to keep them in the best academic and social place. Most of all, she is doggedly determined to give them the best spiritual place. She holds them up before God every day and night and she holds it together when I think I would buckle under the weight. She is thankful when I might be bitter; hopeful when I might surrender. I do not tell her enough, so Hannah Colley, I’m telling you: You are pretty amazing and amazingly pretty to the biased ones down the street. Papa and I are utterly exhausted trying to keep up with your crew and we cannot imagine how you must feel when your head hits the pillow for a precious few hours at night. I know I am biased in the biggest maternal way, but sometimes I have to express the big bias. I also know that your  job could not be done without the children of God who rally around you in a myriad of ways  (but especially in prayer) every single week. We are so proud of the amazing work you are doing, with His  blessings, in the kingdom,  through the three little people we love so much.

There are three more little people we love just as much in Jackson, Tennessee.  It’s these further-away little people who give us joy just as BIG, without quite so much of  the BIG-tired.  We are infinitely and daily grateful for the parents God has given Maggie and Ellis and Lily. We love them deeply, and we are so thankful they are so sufficient in Him and in each other in their Jackson home. The bias, again,  is self-evident, but we cannot thank Him enough for the kind of man Caleb Colley is; for the depth of his spiritual focus, the selflessness that characterizes his leadership and for the loving way He proclaims the precious gospel. We love what he writes, the great logician that he is, and the way he does it all with humility.  We thank God every day for Rebekah, who walks faithfully beside him and is the embodiment of faithful motherhood to Maggie and Ellis and Lily. We are amazed at the Bible knowledge she has put in the two little souls she’s already been teaching. She is the best disciplinarian mom we have ever seen and she does all this while organizing the women’s lectureship at North Jackson and writing books that are valuable to the sisterhood and putting together curriculum for children all over the kingdom, and speaking to ladies groups on a regular basis.  (As an aside, we are equally amazed at the artistic talent that she has given the kids, because we KNOW it did not come through any Colley genes.) 

I know it may sound self-serving to reflect and write about the spiritual qualities of these children I love so much. But, just because they are mine, should I fail to thank and encourage?  Anyway, if that’s the case, I don’t see why, so there…I said it. I’m so thankful that He has given me the inestimably joyful gift of children who walk in truth.  I did not do anything to deserve this gift. It is HIS blessing and the product of HIS truth and the influence of HIS people, but there is no greater joy ( 3 John 1: 4).

We can’t wait to make a trip to meet Lily. Did you enter your guess about her weight and birth time? https://thecolleyhouse.org/wp-admin/post.php?post=19056&action=edit The time is soon and this mammy has a place reserved in her arms, lap and heart already. 

Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

“Well, God can hear my words…”

Don’t forget to make your guess! Lily’s weight and birth time. Instructions here: https://thecolleyhouse.org/wp-admin/post.php?post=19056&action=edit

And speaking of the babes/ It’s always “out of the mouths of babes”…

We have three with us this weekend, while Hannah is speaking at a ladies day at the good Sandyville church near Parkersburg, WV. When three are here it’s a noise competition and a general knock-down/drag out—not of people, but things. Today, I’m actually taking them to explore a nearby cave. I think the damage today will be under the earth and who will know? I think if Eliza Jane says “I a-uh-dentally” one more time, I’ll…well, I’ll probably grab her up again and tickle her. (Actually, I can no longer pick her up, which makes me very sad! But she is off the charts—both weight and height.)

So, it was 3:53 am and I was about done. I’d already been up with Ezra, who had a bad dream, when Eliza came pitter-pattering to my bedside and cried “I had a bad dweam!” 

I must say here that I didn’t really believe her. I really thought that it was all those other times she’d said that and I had lifted her into my bed and snuggled her back to sleep that had driven her to imagine that her benign dreams were a little bit “bad”; bad enough to come and climb in. I lifted her up and put her between Papa and me. That cast on her right arm is “to be reckoned with” in a double bed with three people! (It is a “violet” cast and she is so proud of it.)

Eliza then whispered “I don’t think you can hear my wuhds.” 

I said, :I don’t need to hear your words. We are not talking. We are going to sleep.” 

Then she softly whispered “Well, God can hear my wuhds.” 

I woke up then, for maybe the first time. “Oh, yes, you go ahead and talk to God. I can hear, too.” 

The she whispered, “Dee-ah God, PWEASE, oh PWEASE, don’t let me have any mow-ah bad, ‘cary dreams. In Jesus’ name. Amen.”

Well, I was pricked. I had doubted the severity of her dreams. But, I did go right back to sleep (With my arm securing the otherwise unruly cast) in spite of my conscience-ache . 

In the morning, I asked her if she could remember her dream. 

“Oh yes. It was mama and me and somebody else. Mama spilled a bag of cookies and a whole bunch of dogs came and ate dem all up. When dey finished eating dem, dey attacked us.” 

I said “Did they bite you?” 

She said “Dey didn’t get us. We ran and ran and while we runned, I waked up.” 

Lord, Help me to be more trusting of the innocent ones, more sympathetic and comforting in their little trials and more assured that You hear our whispers. And help me to remember that sometimes the innocent ones who need me may be bigger people, too.

Even so it is not the will of your Father which is in heaven, that one of these little ones should perish (Matthew 18:14).

Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley Dig-a-Bit Podcast

Making a Divine Point about Racism (ConvoM07E01)

Dig-A-Bit is a weekly mini Bible study with Cindy Colley. It supplements the Digging Deep Bible study for women. In this episode, Cindy discusses racism.

For more information about the Digging Deep Bible Study for Women, visit TheColleyHouse.org.

SCRIPTURE REFERENCES:

    • Luke 10, John 8

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Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

Mama’s K.I.S.S. #78: Nursery Sanitation Crew

As you know, if you’ve been reading, for quite some time, I’ve occasionally been running little installments called “Mama’s K.I.S.S.” I know that lots of readers could give many more and far more creative ideas than I can offer, but these installments are just a few tried and true and mostly old-fashioned ideas for putting service hearts in our kids.  This is number 78 of a list of one hundred ways we train our kids to serve. K.I.S.S. is an acronym for “Kids In Service Suggestions”.

Somebody in your congregation, if you are a young church, is already taking the time and effort to sanitize the nursery class each week. Every little plastic car that rolls on the table while they are singing “The wheels on the car go round and round…on the way to Bible class/“ has to be rubbed down with a germ-killing wipe. The linens on the changing table have to be washed and replaced. The table -top that has their little bucket safety seats has to be disinfected and the little clocks they hold during “Tick-tock, time for Bible class” do, too. The diaper pail has to be emptied.

Why not ask the nursery teacher if your teens can do this job for a month of Sundays? You can supervise them if they are young and inexperienced. It’s a great time to teach them how to sanitize while teaching them how to serve. (This one is on almost the same level as the washing of feet in the upper room. It’s not a pretty job. That pail has a stench. But it’s a really necessary job.) This service is valuable in the development of your young “department of sanitation.”

Then at the end of your month, leave a little surprise on the table for the teacher:  a little goody basket or a candle or a box of chocolates.  Include  a note that tells her how much she’s appreciated. After all, she may be the one who is changing the diapers AND emptying the pail. Include this verse in a card.

Even so it is not the will of your Father which is in heaven, that one of these little ones should perish (Matthew 18:14)

 

Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

IVF: Trump Initiative Will Discard Life in Large Numbers.

Among the initiatives that President Trump  has already signed is one that would expand the use of in-vitro fertilization, making it more available and affordable.

From whitehouse.gov:

  • The Order directs policy recommendations to protect IVF access and aggressively reduce out-of-pocket and health plan costs for such treatments.   

    • The recommendations will focus on how to ensure reliable access to IVF.
    • Priority will also be placed on addressing any current policies, including those that require legislation, that exacerbate the cost of IVF treatments.
  • The Order recognizes the importance of family formation and that our Nation’s public policy must make it easier for loving and longing mothers and fathers to have children. 

  • tments are needed.

    • The cost can range from $12,000 to $25,000 per cycle and multiple cycles may be needed to get pregnant.  
    • IVF is often not fully covered by health insurance.
      • Only a quarter of employers report coverage of IVF for their employees.
      • Just a handful of states require some sort of coverage for IVF in state-regulated insurance plans.
      • The federal government covers IVF in a limited capacity for military personnel, veterans, and federal employees. 
  • Department of Health and Human Services data reports that more than 85,000 infants were born as a result of IVF in 2021.

While the above information sounds pro-family, no initiative that continues to promote the conception of children to be discarded or placed in freezers around our nation—to be left there without a plan for their lives or futures— can be pro-family. What the initiative fails to address is that, while 85,000 babies were born through IVF in 2021, more than 238,000 patients attempted IVF in the same year. If clinics created 7 or 8 embryos (children) for each of these patients (a conservative estimate), then that would yield 1.6 to 1.9 million live embryos. With only 85,000 of these embryos being brought to term in 2021, that leaves somewhere between 1.5 million and 1.8 million embryos being created, but never brought to term. Small numbers of these “extra embryos” will be retrieved later or adopted out, but between 2004 and 2019, there were only 8500 births from adopted embryos. *

In America today, we are actually killing more babies with IVF than we are in the abortion industry!

The devil creatively weaves sin and death into initiatives that appear to be pro-family. Further, it should not be just the Catholic segment of the religious world that mounts a small opposition to the rampant use of IVF in our country today. God’s people in the church of Jesus Christ should be vocal and determined in efforts to stop the creation of embryos that will be destroyed once the strongest and “most viable” have been given the privilege of even having a “post-birth.”  

I will, almost certainly, be accused of being unsympathetic to couples who want to be loving parents. Once again, though, I cannot turn a blind eye to the deaths of a half-million per year, whose parents have conceded, prior to the procedure, their immediate or delayed deaths. It’s unconscionable, that we, as a nation, have largely given up the fight for these babies, who outnumber those whose lives are ended after they are growing in the womb in the slaughter that is the abortion industry. 

*https://www.catholicnewsagency.com/news/257066/more-human-embryos-destroyed-through-ivf-than-abortion-every-year