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The Encouragement Tree

Category : Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

It’s the season when I pass the “angel tree” at the mall, when I get scores of empty returnable envelopes in the mail for charity, when I help the young pros in our congregation find children with needs and when the Toys-for-Tots bins are filling up at WalMart.

This giving phenomena always makes me think about how the greatest need that people have is not addressed by “charitable organizations,” but is ONLY addressed by THE charitable organization that was purchased by the ultimate act of charity at Calvary–the church of Jesus Christ. The church is the vehicle by which the world finds access to the gift that is supremely preeminent to all other pitiful material gifts. Access to fellowship with angels that are not just on a tree, charity that goes eternally beyond a returnable envelope, and the ministry that puts malleability into hard hearts so that they become “like little children” for “of such is the kingdom of heaven” (Mark 10:14), —each of these is found only in Christ. Getting His Word to those around us should be our greatest “charity” and gifts to needy souls should be far more important to us than what is under the tree. (I have to really examine my personal priorities here, and work on them, because I love putting gifts under that tree in my living room!)

So what if we could assemble an “encouragement tree” that ministers to the needs of downtrodden souls? What if I list for you the names (not the real names–the pseudo-names–of real women with whom I correspond who are your sisters who have needs of the soul during this holiday season? What if you choose a name from this list and write a letter of encouragement to a sister you don’t even know, send it to an email address or, if it’s handwritten, to a postal address I’ll include, and I will deliver them all for you before the end of the year? You may even wish to choose a name from the list and have the women in your church bring you their own encouraging notes and mail them to me in a large envelope. I know each of the ladies that I will list. One or more of you readers may even find yourselves “hidden” in the list below. I hope lots of women will find (take, snatch, manipulate, redeem) the time during this busy season to participate. It’s the most important kind of giving and yet even a sister with an empty pocketbook can participate in this giving tree. Best of all, there’s a real sense in which you, as you write your letter, are encouraging the Lord, Himself: “Inasmuch as you have done it to the least of these my brethren, you’ve done it unto me.”

Here’s the list:

1. Tricia: A now-faithful sister, in her thirties, who has a deadly STD.
2. Brenda: A grandmother whose young grand-daughter is very sick with cancer.
3. Treena: suffers with MS (in her fifties)
4. Marsha: suffers with panic attacks (in her fifties)
5. Maria: a busy homeschool mom and preacher’s wife who is very sick.
6. Angel: a mom who is really trying to beat anger management challenges and be a good wife and mother.
7. Priscilla: a very faithful single mom who is standing for truth in a very worldly area of our United States.
8. Carol: the wife of a faithful elder who is “standing in the gap” in an extremely difficult situation.
9. Jasmine: a busy young mom whose father is fighting for his life (cancer) in a city far away from her.
10. Krysten: a young and newly converted college student who is beginning to think that there are no really faithful guys “out there.” It just seems to her that their religion always turns out to be a facade and not an “all-the-way-through” lifestyle.

Remember the “children” on this “tree” are children of God. They are your sisters. You may reach them by sending a letter (include the pseudo-name, so I can sort them) to byhcontest@gmail.com. or a handwritten note may be sent to Cindy Colley, 1519 Old Monrovia Road, Huntsville, AL 35806. The deadline is Dec 25th. And many thanks for giving of your most valuable commodity: time.

How Are You Going?

Category : Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

One of my friends from Australia always asks “ How are you going?” It means the same to her as when I say “How are you doing?” but I like the way she says that because it really fits the way I live. We are on the go and never more so than each year during the month of August. Several very influential events are  happening in the next few weeks and I want to be sure you are taking advantage of them if at all possible.

First, Polishing the Pulpit starts this Friday in Sevierville, TN. Scores of sound teachers, classes and activities for all ages will be part of what has become, in my opinion, the event among our brethren and sisters with the broadest scope of influence. It gets underway this weekend and continues through the following Thursday. I do not want to miss a moment and I’m pumped about seeing lots of you there. This year, it will be fun to have all THREE of my children there and my biggest challenge will be finding the time I want to spend with them, and all of the other blood relatives and blood-of-Christ relatives, while getting in the prep time I need for the lessons and still getting to hear some of my favorite speakers. This is a taste of heaven, for sure, but I am looking forward to all of the fellowship and singing and visiting without the time restrictions. Come and let’s get ready for that place and time together!  Go to www.polishingthepulpit.com for details.

PTP: Great Fellowship Awaits!

Before I leave the PTP promo, let me say thanks to all of you who submitted tips for deep Bible study. Winners in the “best study tips contest” are these three: Sandy Cook, for her idea of group study, Brian Giselbach, for the wisdom from Guy Woods he passed along, and Dana Ethredge, for what she is doing with Halley’s Bible Handbook. As promised, you will get all these tips later. But for now, Sandy, Brian and Dana, look on the site www.colleybooks.org, pick out your free product and let me know where to send it by emailing byhcontest@gmail.com.

Next, ladies, please don’t forget about the ladies seminar “This is War” to be held on August 27th at the new West Huntsville at Providence building. You can reserve your spots for attending and free lodging, if needed, by going to www.westhuntsville.org. You can also, obviously link to the event from this blog. The deadline is officially August 15th. We want to work to have room and food and seating for everyone, so do let us know as soon as you can. You will be so glad for any effort you expend to be part of this.

Speaking of West Huntsville…Yesterday we became West Huntsville at Providence as we assembled in our beautiful new building at 1519 Old Monrovia Road in Huntsville. If you are ever our way, be sure to stop and worship with us. We are so blessed to be in this new facility and be able to start sowing the seed in a fertile neighborhood that’s “on the grow.”  As a matter of fact, I often think that the devil will surely try hard to defeat the great things that are happening at WH-P. But, we are family, in the truest sense of that Word, and we plan to fight him tooth and nail to keep our close bond of fellowship centered on the gospel of Christ. If you can’t physically visit us, stop in to www.westhuntsville.org and download some of the strengthening messages we’re blessed to hear on a regular basis.

West Huntsville at Providence
photo by Tony Anderson

Then there’s the beginning of school for so many moms who read the blog. Please know that I am praying for your children as they head into another school year. So many people prayed me through the school years of my children and I know it was because of His mercies that Caleb and Hannah have been able to remain faithful in this society that would wrest convictions of faith from our kids. I’m praying for yours. Some of them I often take to the throne by name, and some I pray for “en masse”, but God is faithful. Some of you are keeping your kids at home this year for the first time to home educate them. I am thankful for your choice. Be diligent.  Some of you are praying for them as you have delegated a part of their education to someone else. I am praying with you. Stay involved and alert. “In all your ways, acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths.”

Bible study tips for today:

Sandy Pritchett says “One of my favorite ways to study the Bible is on topics that either I am going through or something that I came across and I am interested.”

Kirby Cole says teaching a class is his best tool for deep Bible study because you have to know the material you are presenting & be prepared for any questions that may be brought up. “Teaching also gives you an incentive to study.”

Alyssa Cole says listening to relatives that are faithful Christians gives her a jumpstart to study because “they inspire you.”

More tips next time. Have an awesome August!

It’s a CONTEST!!!!!

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What is your very best tip or tool for deep Bible study? Best answer(s) by Friday (8/5) get a free item of choice from www.colleybooks.org. Please send your ideas in a private message (facebook me or email me at  byhcontest@gmail.com), so the lesson on this topic will be fresh for PTP. Then I will publish all your answers in the blog www.cindycolley.blogspot.com in the coming weeks. 1…2…3…go!

My Dear Mattianne

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In looking through some stored files on my computer, I found this letter written a couple of years ago to my precious niece, Mattianne Sparks. A few days ago, Matti had her 14th birthday. I think she is doing all of the things listed in the letter that enable young women to set an example for the believers (I Tim. 4:12). I hope she knows how proud I am of her.

My dear Mattianne,

I have been intending to write this letter for a few weeks. It has been on my list, but I just can’t seem to get to all the important things. Well, today, I am making it a priority. I just want to tell you how very proud I am of all the decisions you have made that led to your decision to be a Christian. I know there are so many things in this old world we live in that pull young girls like you in the wrong direction. It’s easy to get caught up in talking like the world, dressing like the world, being interested in all the wrong kinds of entertainment like the world, and just, in general, wasting a lot of time on things that are not important at all. Well, I am so happy that the things you are “all about” are good things…things that you will not look back on later and regret. I’m thankful you want to volunteer your time to help poor people and old people. I’m glad you are not rebellious and eye-rolling to your mama and papa. I’m glad that you WANT to do the things they ask you to do and I’m so glad you are compliant in NOT doing the things they think are harmful for you. I’m so happy you decided to put on Christ and that you are determined to let Him be your example for all the decisions you will face. He will never let you down and you will be so happy when you are my age that you chose to do the difficult things that you knew would please Him. When you think some right choice is so hard or unpopular or uncomfortable, always think about the cross and how popular, comfortable or easy it was to be nailed to it and hanging there for the better part of a day, and you will want to do the right thing even if it is oh-so-hard.

I am thankful that you called us so Hannah and I could come and see you buried with Jesus. I am even more thankful that you said I was your role model. If I can be good enough to lead someone who is as wise and godly as you, then I will be okay! What an honor. I would rather be your role model than to be a model for Glamour magazine any day of the week! When they offer me that job, I will tell them I have already reached the pinnacle in the modeling business!

So…keep on always for Him. Read your Bible every single day. Never miss a worship service. Pray all the time about everything. On the ball field, at tennis camp, in your neighborhood and on your job, always be thinking, “Who can I help to come to the Lord?” He will help you grow and grow and He will help you bring somebody else to Him and that is just the best feeling on this planet. I can’t wait to sit in heaven around His throne with you and all of those you brought with you! Always know you can call on me if you need anything!

Much love now and always,

Cindy

…another contest entry from Linda Lee Polk Anderson. Linda lost her husband, Kym , and her children, Julee and Christopher, in an accident, not too long after she made these memories in Maryland. Memory is often a great comforter in the hard times. Memory handles, like the construction paper handprints, are priceless. Here’s what Linda wrote:

When my first family moved from Groveland, FL, just west of Orlando, to Baltimore, MD in November of 1989 it was a huge change for our children, Julee and Christopher. Julee was 3 and a half and Chris was 18 months. We ended up living in an apartment that had a washer and dryer. That was my only request.

It snowed on Thanksgiving. Chris went from wearing a diaper, t shirt, and no shoes to wearing a full body “coat”. He was not a happy camper. Julee adjusted pretty well. Our poor little black poodle wasn’t happy either. I would take Krissie, name rearranged from Kissy Face, out for her bathroom walk and the poor thing didn’t know what to do. She would find a place, do her circles, get ready and then move because it was just too cold for her. This would happen every time we went out. After about 30 minutes she would have success.

When it came time to put up Christmas decorations I wasn’t sure what to do. The tree that we always used was too big to put in the apartment. I finally decided to just put up half of the tree and it worked out fine. That wasn’t enough, we needed more. I traced Kym’s, Julee’s, Chris’ and my hand onto green construction paper and cut them out. I then placed them on the inside of the front door according to size and had a Christmas tree on the door. I still have these “hands” today and cherish each one of them.

I had always made Dishpan Cookies each year before and wasn’t going to be stopped from that in my very small kitchen. I had a hand held mixer and burned it up on the first half of the ingredients. Kym took me to the store and had me to pick out the mixer I wanted. I found one that looked just like mothers while I was growing up. Now I had my mixer, ingredients, and ready to go. Julee was watching me and wanted to help. She became the official ingredient pourer. We made cookies all day.

Chris finally got use to the full body “coat” and we would go out and play in the snow. There was a lot of it that first year. We did a lot of other things, but these are my special memories.

If you don’t have any special things that you do during the Christmas Season, start making one, or two, or three. You will never know how precious they will be one day.

Dishpan Cookies
9 to 10 dozen
These are called dishpan cookies because of the amount of ingredients in them.

Have a large dishpan. I use the one that was aluminum. At least one other person.

Mix together till creamy:
2 cups sugar
2 cups brown sugar
2 cups veg. oil
2 Tablespoons vanilla
4 eggs

Add:
4 cups plain flour
4 cups corn flakes
1 1/2 cups dry oats
1 cup of coconut
1 cup of nuts (opt)
1 cup of raisins (opt)
1/2 teaspoon salt

Bake at 350 for 8 to 10 minutes. Cool and place in an airtight container. Each day they taste better. Military love these.

Now you understand why my handheld mixer burned up. I now cut this recipe in half and make two batches.

There Arose Such a Clatter

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It was a shocker, alright. It was in the very early hours of Christmas morning when the huge, noise that shook the house abruptly woke up the neighborhood. Glenn looked at me with terror in his eyes and then ran into the room where Hannah was sleeping. He “sprang from his bed to see what was the matter.” I heard him mutter something about a bomb as he ran out of the room. The last time I had heard a noise like that had been many years ago when a big trash truck had bolted over a curb and into our house (but that’s another story for another post). The kids were both okay and, on investigation, we found that, this time, a huge part of a tree had fallen on the house. There was damage, but safety for all.

Later in the day, the kids and I were talking about how their dad reacts to unknown perceived threats.  He inhales hugely! (BIG gasp that’s a little funny on reflection). Then he runs (dressed or not) to wherever his kids are. The amazing thing was that his reaction was just the same when they are twenty-something as it was when they were 2 and 6. He instinctively runs to his children. Their safety and protection are his only immediate concern. While we were talking about this, Hannah said she could remember one occasion, as a child, when a bumblebee woke her up buzzing around her head. She said, “I was scared of that noise in the dark, I cried out and immediately heard Dad’s footsteps–loud running footsteps– as he ran into my room and took me in His arms. Then he killed that bee. Anytime I yelled in the night, he was right there, right then.”

I think every child who has a good father remembers what it felt like to be in his arms. I remember pretending I was asleep in the back of our station wagon when I was a child just so my daddy would carry me in the house. Ultimate protection, strength and safety were wrapped all around me.

That’s what God does. The Bible describes our God as “a very present help in time of trouble” (Psa.46:1). He’s right there, right then.  He is the Father who pities His children (Psa.103:13), and hears their cries (Psa 34:17). He is the one who offers His help to His people “right early” (Psa.46:5). Deuteronomy thirty-three, verse twenty-seven says he puts his everlasting arms beneath us.

Let me assure you, even if you’ve never felt the need to cry out to your Father or to feel his arms beneath you, there will come a time when a huge clatter will arise in your life. You will look in horror at the prospects before you and you will desperately want to cry out to Him.  Are you secure in the house of the Father? Will he hasten to your side when you cry? If not, will you contact me and let me help you find that security? I wish this safety for every reader.

…and now, another great Christmas contest entry:

As a 4th and 5th grade teacher at Jefferson Christian Academy, I had to come up with a service project for the 2009-2010 year. Little did I know how I would impact not only my students’ lives, but the sailors on the USS Donald Cook as well. We started our pen pal system in September and waited in anticipation for return letters. Two huge packages came in the mail!  Each student received a personal letter and even gifts! We immediately starting writing and drawing so our new friends would receive them before Christmas. These heartfelt and genuine letters and pictures helped improve the spirits of all on board, since they displayed the letters for all to see. We were eventually sent pictures by Commanding Officer Derek Granger about what it was like to fight piracy off the Coast of Africa, and I received a letter of gratitude for this project.

Bethany Tongate
Birmingham, AL

Quiet Time at Serenity

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We loved having Christmas company in the cabin. We loved, loved having Benjamin (Hannah’s boyfriend) here for making Christmas merriment (and funny gingerbread people) with us. We were happy to have Tiffany for chai, and we always have fun with the huge Sunday night crowd around our tree! Heather and Lauren came by with merry mix and the Doziers were bearing gifts, too. Even Baxter the cat has come home from Tennessee this year for Christmas. But for the next 36 hours or so, it’s just the four of us (and, well…Baxter). This is the quiet part of Christmas that is my favorite time of the season. I know we can’t have this special foursome Christmas Eve forever. One day soon, some boy or girl will permanently make his/her way into the heart of the boy or the girl and we will have to get used to sharing for the holidays, and that is just how it should be. (…Although I do think that might be the toughest kind of holiday giving!) But, for now, we will relish the moments and enjoy with unhurried appreciation the time and the closeness of family together.

As we do this, Glenn and I do not forget that it’s because of the Father that we can enjoy peaceful and truly happy times with our children. It’s because of Him that our children love to be with us (at least we think they do). It’s because of His guidance that they are secure in Christ and, thus, so many sorrows and burdens have been lifted from our lives. It’s because of His Son that we have family unity—of goals and hopes and ambitions. It’s because of Him that we have every gift that’s waiting beneath the tree. It’s because of an empty tomb that we are at peace in our souls. It is the security of Christianity that makes life consequential. I am sad for those families who are missing the meaning. I’m sad because the big God-shaped hole leaves us volatile to all kinds of havoc and heartache as it remains unfilled. I’m so thankful during the quiet times for the One who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine according to His power that is at work within us (Eph. 3:20). That’s what He has done at our house–immeasurably more. And we are so grateful.

Now, for the Christmas Eve business: In case you haven’t heard, the Bless Your Heart Christmas contest is officially over. I gathered the most qualified Claus-metologists from three states and they carefully examined the entries. They were unaware, while judging, of the authors’ identities. They took into account creativity, writing skills, rule adherence and portrayal of family values. May I now congratulate Jan Coppett of Huntsville, Alabama for the award winning entry below. Jan gets to choose five free items from www.colleybooks.org. Jan is asked to notify me personally with her choices rather than ordering online. So many great entries. So hard to choose. But here’s the one chosen by the judges: More entries will be featured before the year ends.

The Winning Entry:

I was 9 or 10 that Christmas and I was wondering if there was a real Santa Claus or if indeed it was like some of my school friends said–Santa was only your Mama and Daddy. This Christmas I was having doubts. But my Mama, who never told a falsehood, said if you didn’t believe in him, then he simply quit coming to leave you presents. I couldn’t take the chance on that happening, could I? I didn’t want to appear foolish to my friends, but at the same time, just so as to cover my bases, I played along. After all, I had a little brother who was 8 years younger than I, and it was fun to see Santa through his eyes. Even if Santa was your parents, my brother was having such fun. I sure wasn’t going to spoil it for him. Besides, didn’t I have a 10 speed bike in my daydreams?

A few days before Christmas, my parents and brother and I left to visit some relatives in town. We were gone for hours, and when we got home, there in the living room was the 10 speed bike I had been dreaming of for weeks, my favorite color and everything! I couldn’t believe it, Santa had come early, just to show me he could! There was a note saying the bike was a little large to bring on his sleigh, so he’d decided to make a special trip and bring it before Christmas! How could it be? The doors of our house were shut and locked before we left and still were when we got home! There must be a Santa, for how else could this bike have gotten inside our house?

I never did know how they did it, but I will always remember the year that Santa gave me one more year to believe!

Jan Coppett