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Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

Winner #5: Debbie Deavours–This one’s most like the foot washing!

For the record, Debbie didn’t want to win. She didn’t really even send this to the right email address. She said “This was not even me! I just wanted to tell you about these amazing women who were doing this wonderful thing every week for so long!” But this one’s just so menial–so wonderfully generous and selfless. (Some of our West Huntsville women also did this for over thirty years. Their hearts grew three sizes in this wonderful ministry and they were already very large hearts for Him!) Here are her words:

This isn’t a story about service today, but past service. I know your service contest is about today, but I wanted to tell you about these three wonderful women from Northport church of Christ. A few years back, I attended on a weeknight a “Boggins for Cancer” group there. This group has been meeting for years making toboggans and throws for cancer patients. I began talking with a lady and she told me what she and two other ladies did on Fridays. They went to a nursing home and washed and fixed hair for ladies who couldn’t afford to pay $25 each week to get theirs done. I was astounded. They were not trained professionally. One lady had done it for over 16 years and the other 2 for over 13 years. They said they could use my help, so I volunteered for a year until Covid struck. We did as many as 13 ladies on Fridays. A challenge doesn’t even describe what took place and those ladies, two in their 70s and one in her late 60s had been doing it for all those years. The ladies paid for everything they used. As time passed, I learned they did so much more. They brought them clothes, books, magazines, snacks, and calendars.  One Friday, the three went on a beach trip with the church group. I knew how disappointed my new friends at the nursing home would be if someone didn’t come. They’d be lined up outside the tiny room waiting. I decided I’d try. I was able to do 8 ladies. Each had their own challenges. Some could lie back. Some could bend forward. Some wanted curlers, some wanted blow-dry. Some used special shampoo. All wanted to talk. Some we could understand. Others not so much. One we brought hair bows for and each week required a new one, because no one could find them. No one understands what those three wonderful women did for so many for so long, but God and me. And what I did was only for a brief time compared. I told my daughter, Peyton, “Your church at Northport doesn’t have a clue what these ladies do each week.” You know, the nursing home never recognized those ladies for all they did, but I’m sure all those smiles each Friday was recognition enough. 
In His love,
Debbie

And the Foot-washer knows about the hair-washers, too. In fact, he is the recipient of this great work, at times. “Inasmuch as you have done it to the least of these my brethren, you have done it to me.”

Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

Winner #4: Aurelia Wright–Saving Gas Money & Saving Souls

Aurelia’s simple service suggestion:

Find a co-worker to carpool with. With gas prices rising they may need a helping hand in saving money on the trip to work. Not only will it help them financially but you will be able to help them spiritually by sharing the gospel on your ride to work.

There are so many things I love about this one, but the best thing about this is its soul-saving potential. Of course, the greatest service we can do for anyone is to bring her the news that will secure her soul in safety for eternity. While we often cannot/would not bring the gospel without filling the physical needs, we surely fill needs for a relatively small benefit if we do not bring the gospel, too. Sin’s ruin and chaos in life brings darkness and death, creating the greatest need of all. When lovingly dealing with those outside the body, always remember the big goal: heaven.

I love this idea, secondly, because it is born of faith. It’s so good when we give information (via blessing bags or when we randomly buy meals) to the homeless or to those who are begging for donations. It’s a great work when we pass out tracts at the fair or at the nursing home or funeral home. But forming relationships of trust and comfort with the end goal of showing and teaching Christianity is, while time intensive, an even more valuable and “trackable” way to share the good news. We can do both– those kinds of evangelism where we do not get to know the receiving souls AND the kind where we are developing relationships while sharing the gospel.

Thank-you Aurelia! Teach on!

Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

Winner Number 3: Kerri Epling is “Puzzling”

 

Here’s Kerri’s service idea just as she submitted it:

Last year on a whim we took a jigsaw puzzle to a newly- widowed woman in our congregation. She was having some people stay with her for a few weeks due to her own medical issues, and we set the puzzle out and started it on a table in her side room.  As ladies came to visit and stay with her, they would each put in a few pieces while they talked.   Several of them commented how much they enjoyed the time working together on the puzzles and how easy it made for them to have quality conversations together.  When the puzzle was completed, the new widow had so many great memories of her friends working together on the puzzle. 

(I read this and thought it would also be fun to frame the puzzle when finished and let the sisters who worked on it sign the back and gift the framed puzzle back to the recuperating sister.)

So many great ideas. So little time!

 

 

Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

Six Winners Instead of Three!

Just like we do not know how many wise men there were serving the baby Jesus, you never know how many really wise women there may be when it comes to serving Jesus, the Savior. (Serving others is serving Him [Matthew 25].) So, narrowing down your service ideas to a mere three was nigh to impossible. I’m taking some of your ideas to present in ladies days about service this year. I’ll credit the diggers, but I cannot wait! Mostly, I cannot wait to try some of them myself. You are the best!

So, six winners instead of three this Christmas. The six ladies below need to message me their postal addresses. I’ll send your tea towels and bracelets. Let me know that they arrive safely. (It’s mayhem season at the post office!)

Meanwhile, I’ll be posting the winning ideas here. Drum roll…the winners are:

Aurelia Wright–California

Nancy Pennington–Ohio

Debbie Deavours–Alabama

Sandra Woolsey–Tennessee

Kerri Epling–Tennessee

Molly Cobb–Missouri

Every reader needs to look at the ideas I’m going to run in the next few days. (You ladies are intuitive about effective service!) I know there’s at least one of these ideas that each of you can incorporate into your own service regime or into the work of your local church. Here’s the first winning entry from Nancy Pennington (trying to get the “Christmasy” ideas in first):

“We have a single mom of 3 in our congregation with no family in the area. My husband and I are taking the three children out to lunch and Christmas shop for their mom. We are giving each child (8,7,6) a set amount of money to buy a gift for mom. The mall is an hour from our home. This has been fun thinking of what to do.
Thanks.” 
Nancy Pennington

 

 

 

Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

This Year’s Holiday Contest!

As December begins this year, we are finishing up a Digging Deep study about that amazing service project completed by our Lord in the upper room at the Passover feast. This year’s holiday contest is centered on service. Send us your best service idea for the holiday season. I’ve heard about several already from Diggers, but this contest is open to all women who’d like to enter.

I don’t want to start describing ideas because I don’t want to pre-empt someone’s best idea, but I do want to say the project can be costly or without cost. It can be simple and quick or long and labor-intensive. It can be performed to help a child or a widow or a family or a congregation. The creativity of women who read this blog always amazes me.

So send your best service idea to byhcontest@gmail.com. Send it by midnight on December 10th. Three winners will receive these cute little silver-tone bracelets that I’m making this year for fun gift-giving. They have a tiny little shovel charm and a little bar charm  that says  “BLESSED”.  I’ll also send along one of the Digging Deep flour-sack style tea towels from our store.

Let’s help each other serve!

Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

More Merry…

Below are a couple more entries in the Merry Music contest from my friend, Bonny Moore. Hope you’re in the merry spirit and I really hope you’re being good! It’s Christmas Eve! Listen for sleigh bells!
Now, from Bonny…
Some of my favorite Christmas memories involving music are going caroling with our youth group from the Madison church of Christ and later with my friends from Freed-Hardeman, and still later with the Young Professionals from West Huntsville. Can you tell I love caroling? 
One time in particular, a group of friends and I were going caroling in a neighborhood near Freed-Hardeman University where several professors and the president of the school lived. One of the professors was Brother Bob Brown. We walked up to his semi-Victorian style house, nicely lit with white Christmas lights strung along the eaves and around the porch posts, and with a welcoming singing Santa on the porch. We rang the bell, and Mrs. Brown (Mama Joan) came out to greet us. After singing a song or two out in the cold, we went inside and sat in the living room on the couch, chairs, and floor, and sang several carols. I recall seeing Mama Joan’s face glowing with delight and Mr. Brown standing behind her with his hand resting gently on her shoulder. 
After our traditional finale of “We Wish You a Merry Christmas,” Mama Joan asked if we would do her a favor. She said she had a Christmas tree that she wanted to decorate in her dining room, but she had not been able to get to it, and she wanted to know if we would be willing to help her decorate it. How could we say “no” to such a request? So, we stayed. Mr. and Mrs. Brown brought out their boxes of ornaments and hooks, and we hung ornaments on the tree for at least half an hour, maybe longer. Some of the ornaments were rather eclectic and eccentric, not unlike Mama Joan herself, so it was quite entertaining. We sang more carols while decking the tree, and the entertainment continued as we tried carols to which some of the group obviously did not know the words. (I mean, how can anyone not know ALL of “The Twelve Days of Christmas,” or “Frosty the Snowman?” It’s a good thing we did not try “You’re A Mean One, Mr. Grinch!”) After we finished decorating the tree, Mama Joan gave us each a big hug and thanked us for helping her. As we stepped back out into the cold, our hearts were warm with the love of friendship and with the knowledge of having done a good deed by brightening the night for a couple who had long brightened the lives of many a college student such as ourselves.
Another of my favorite Christmas memories involving singing is of going to Rainbow Omega at Christmastime to visit with the residents there and to deliver Christmas presents to them. Rainbow Omega, Inc. is a community in Eastaboga, AL, for developmentally disabled adults where they live and work all on the same campus. The residents  all worked at the time in a large warehouse-like building, which is where we had our Christmas gathering. It was such fun to re-connect with our old friends, and they were as joyful as children at a Christmas party! We distributed hand-made gifts to each resident, and then we sang carols to them. It was fun to hear them chime in with the carols that they knew. One of the funniest parts was when we sang “The Twelve Days of Christmas,” and one of my friends acted out all of the days in fine, exaggerated form! The residents laughed and laughed at her. While there, we also had a devotional time with them, and it was so heart-warming to witness their sincere love for the Lord and their gentle, child-like trust in Him. It reminded me of Matthew 18:3, where Jesus says, “‘Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.'” What a blessing it was to have that personal contact with living reminders of God’s desire for us.
Thank you for doing this contest and helping me to think back on good memories!
Merry Christmas!
Love in Him,
Bonny Moore