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Mark Your Calendar for June 4thMark Your Calendar for June 4th Ladies: We are excited to announce Part 2 of the Special Digging Deep Podcast scheduled for Tuesday, June 4th. We’ll be discussing all the things that were brought up and left unaddressed in our last podcast: “children’s Bible hour”, frequency of contribution, and listening to “Christian bands” among others. Listen...

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SPRING WEDDING SPECIAL!SPRING WEDDING SPECIAL! If you are like the Colleys, you have several wedding gifts to buy or make this spring. Lots of Colley House customers are ordering multiples of the marriage book "You're Singing My Song" for wedding showers this year. So here's a little help: Spring Wedding Special! You're Singing My Song Buy three copies and get...

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NEW Book on Homeschooling NEW Book on Homeschooling Available NOW! First of all, it’s not an indictment against those who have made or will make another choice. Secondly, it’s surely not the work of an author who thinks she has arrived at the pinnacle of the homeschooling climb. (How can anyone ever think she knows everything about a phenomenon that’s as old as...

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Digger Doug’s Underground Rocks by Apologetics PressDigger Doug’s Underground Rocks by Apologetics Press Songs written and performed by Caleb Colley. Digger Doug’s Underground Rocks is not for worship/devotional use. Join Digger Doug and Iguana Don for a rockin’ treat! Digger Doug’s Underground Rocks, a new music CD from Apologetics Press, is a collection of fun songs about science for kids. Twelve original songs...

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Picking Melons and Mates by Cindy ColleyPicking Melons and Mates by Cindy Colley Here it is! The children's book that's for toddlers and teens about choosing wisely. It's especially about using godly wisdom when it's time to choose a mate for life. The best thing about this book is that it has a three-week Family Bible Time Guide in the back that any parent can easily follow. The first in a Family Bible...

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Mama’s K.I.S.S. #24: Prepare for Communion

Category : Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

Over the past few years, one of the most requested topics on my speaking circuit has been a lesson in which I list a hundred ideas for training our kids to be servants. Service oriented kids grow up to be productive adult servants in the kingdom and it’s those people to whom the Lord will say, “Come ye blessed of my Father,” according to Matthew 25. So it matters if I’m making a real effort, as a mom, to put the heart of a servant in my child. For this reason, I’ve decided to devote a post, every now and then, to a service suggestion—a simple idea for moms to make their homes busy service centers for young hearts and hands. I’d love to hear from those of you who try them. So here goes:

Prepare for Communion

What better time for teaching your children about the last Passover supper, the death of our Lord, and the meaning of the Lord’s Supper than when you are in the kitchen baking unleavened bread for your congregation’s weekly communion feast? So go ahead. Ask your elders or leaders if you may provide the bread and the juice for one upcoming Sunday (or even a month of Sundays). Unless you have vineyards, you may want to purchase the juice. But take the time to tell your children about the original passover and how the women left Egypt so quickly with the bread in tow (Exodus 12, 13). (If you want to study up on the relationship of the Passover and the Lord’s Supper, I would suggest the related chapters in a book called “We Bow Down,” available from Publishing Designs as well as www.thecolleyhouse.org.)

If your congregation has special trays and a preparation area in the building, take your kids there and let them complete the preparations for the serving. Here’s one simple recipe for unleavened bread:

UNLEAVENED BREAD

1 cup whole wheat flour (extra for dusting)2 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil1/2 cup waterThe idea for this recipe came from I Kings 17:10-16, the story of Elijah and the widow.Combine the ingredients, then put dough onto floured surface. Knead for five minutes, then roll out until about 1/8 inch thick. On either parchment paper or a greased cookie sheet, bake in a preheated 350°F oven for 20 minutes.

 

Q and A: Kids and the Nursery

Category : Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

babypewHi there– I was wondering if you had written any, or could direct me to, any interesting articles on nursery use during worship. Thank you!

You could ask 100 ladies this question and get answers that are all over the map. Since you asked me, though, let me give you my strong opinions about church nurseries:

  1. Since we don’t find the word or concept in the scriptures, a nursery room in a church building (“church building” being a term that’s also absent from scripture), then a nursery has to be an expedient and not a necessary element of a faithful church. Thus, if the existence of a nursery impedes, rather than enriches faithful worship in a local body, then it should not exist.
  2. Sometimes infants and toddlers impede faithful worship during the time in which parents are training them and it’s a great thing to have a place where parents can go and teach practical worship lessons along with  appropriately punishing when children are purposely disobeying during worship.
  3. I believe it is a mistake that breeds very negative consequences when a nursery or cry room is turned into an alternative to sitting still and being quiet,…i.e. a fun place to go and play while worship is in progress.
  4. I believe a child who is misbehaving in worship and knows he is misbehaving in worship should get a spanking every single time a trip to the nursery is made. ( I know there will be a lot of disagreement here, but I’m pretty settled in my heart about this one.) I’ve seen many children who push the limits of crying, laughing, whining and wiggling in worship, only to stop it all and smile as the parents get up and grab the diaper bag. They have accomplished their purpose of getting to leave the place where they have to be quiet and go to the place where the fun and toys are waiting. This is not good training for worship.
  5. I believe it is sinful for nursery attendants to visit and talk about random topics while they are watching the infants. They should be a part of the worship in every way possible. The sound system should be turned up in the nursery and they should be singing and praying and listening. What a very difficult thing it is for a young nursing mother to enter the nursery with her hungry newborn only to realize there’s a conversation going on there about the baby shower being planned for next Sunday night and the recipes that are being made. (There were times when I simply dreaded taking my babies out for a feeding because I would have to be the only one singing and praying in the nursery. That’s awkward when all your friends are having a pow-wow or a play date!)
  6. I believe parental training for worship is FAR preferable to baby sitting services. I know churches with complete child care forms to fill out for worship times. These forms include family discipline policies, allergies, etc….I believe children who are old enough to be left with others for playtime are old enough to be learning a lot from the worship service. Children can be impressed with what a baptism looks like, learn the tunes and some of the words to hymns, learn reverence during prayer time and start figuring out how to contribute before they are a year old. Why would we want them to miss this young time of immersion in the sights and sounds of worship that will become building blocks to faithful adult worship? I’m so glad our children had this infant training.
  7. I believe a toddler should have to sit just as still and be just as quiet in the nursery as he would if he were in the auditorium. If my toddler had to be carried out, he knew that was a very bad thing. He expected a spanking and then he knew he had to sit very still until he could re-enter the auditorium with the very least disturbance possible.
  8. Nurseries, to be most expedient, should provide a very quiet and private place for nursing mothers. But members should not mind if tiny babies are nursed beneath blankets on the back row of the assembly, either. This is a very natural and modest way to be inclusive in our worship. I cannot imagine God objecting to this.
  9. Members should also be very understanding and patient with mothers and fathers who are doing their best to train their children to be reverent during worship. Bringing our babies into the assembly of worship is sometimes difficult and sacrificial. Older members should encourage and help out when help is welcomed.
  10. We should avoid having groups of Christians separated from the assembly and the worship process for the purpose of childcare. Worship, in scripture, is both a requirement and a privilege. We should want to be offering our best to God at all cost. The parent’s nursery, where a parent can go, for a few moments, discipline or feed while listening through technology, and return is a pretty efficient way to avoid taking adults out of worship while, at the same time, keeping our children in the worship arena for training as much of the time as possible. In congregations in which the elders choose to have attended nurseries for infants, those who are caring for the babies should be worshiping, too. With today’s technology, there is no reason we would have it any other way!

Guest Writer: Ally Cole Part 2

Category : Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

Can I ask you to remember the family of my dear friend, Hope Shull, in your prayers this week? She won the victory over the disease of cancer earlier today as she went home. Her sweet husband Donald and her boys, Will and Allen, need our prayers, as well as her daughters-in law and her two sweet (and well-loved!) grandchildren. May they all live for Him so the reunion one day can be complete. In her last few days of life, Hope took the time to write me a long letter in her own hand. Her letter was crafted to encourage me, something she did frequently, and always successfully in her life. I treasure that letter I received last week and I will sorely miss her encouragement. I love her parents, the Barbers, too, and I am keeping them close in prayer.

This installment of “Bless Your Heart” is different from most previous posts. It’s the second installment of a young lady’s fictional story.

During the past three years or so, I have come to know a budding young writer named Ally L. Cole. Ally lives in Missouri and is thirteen years old. She loves to sing and play the guitar and has a keen interest in all things World War Two. She’s home-schooled, loves her co-op group and her family in the Lord. She loves her pot-bellied pig (in a different way, of course) and she doesn’t like to eat pork (Now why does she not like bacon?). She’s an inventor, artist, paintball prodigy and amateur movie producer. She loves Polishing the Pulpit and this year she plans to attend Horizons at FHU.

I have taken the liberty, with Ally’s permission, of doing a little editing of all three chapters of this story. Some of you moms (with kids around the ages of 7-12) might want to continue this tonight for your Family Bible Time. Let me know if your children enjoy it and we may share another story at a later date. Find the topics for discussion that I (cc) added at the end of each segment. I hope they are valuable in making practical applications for your home and family. You may want to save those for a second night or maybe even discuss them for the next two or three nights. May God bless Ally and all of the children and teens who are growing up in Him! Thanks for the story, Ally! Remember me, your first publisher, when you are rich and famous!

Next time…the exciting conclusion!

School Days
Chapter Two

Finally, it was time for recess. “Why don’t we go meet Amelia and Alice?” Lacie asked.

Beth. Amelia and Alice were sitting under the oak tree in the schoolyard, and they seemed rather excited to meet the two friends. “Don’t take us all wrong. We’re so glad you are here,” Lacie said. She wanted to make sure Amelia know she and her siblings were welcome.

“Oh, I know that. We are glad to be here, too. And, believe me, my brother doesn’t always behave this way. He’s a fine brother, really.” Amelia pointed to Donald, who had been walking toward the dirt road. Alice’s eyes widened. “Now where’s he a-goin’?” By then, her brother was running down the road, and almost out of sight.
“Excuse me,” Amelia sighed, “I need to get my brother.”

As she and Alice chased after Donald, Terry had been observing the scene. “Hey! Tell your no-good brother that I said to keep going and to never come back! Hahaha!”
Everyone in the schoolyard wished Mrs. Colley had heard Terry’s cruel statement, because she would have put a hickory switch to him so hard it wouldn’t have been funny.

“Poor Donald,” Beth suddenly said. But Lacie had absolutely no pity for him. It was, in fact, Donald who had punched Terry over a silly incident, and now he had run away like a coward.

“Really, Beth,” she smirked, “I think he’s a faker. I can’t imagine his accent being real. I mean, nobody can talk like that for real, can they?”

“Lacie, you are ever so prejudiced! Why, we haven’t even met the man!” Lacie loved how her best friend referred to people of all ages as adults and how she used such big words. Beth’s best subject in school was English, whereas Lacie was better at World History. The two had so many dissimilarities, yet they were the best of friends. Both of them were just plain sick of Terry Mauldin’s rude behavior. He and Jeanette were never going to leave school, as Lacie’s six year-old cousin Darla would often comment.

A while later, Amelia and Alice came running back to the schoolhouse, gasping for breath. Lacie and Beth were on their way to ask what had happened to Donald, but the two sisters bypassed them.

“Mrs. Colley! Oh, Mrs. Colley!” They hurried to the picnic table where Mrs. Colley was enjoying the Good Book. “I hate to tell you this, but—–Donald ran home and said he wasn’t going to be here for the rest of the day. I am ever so sorry, ma’am.” Luckily for Donald’s sake, Mrs. Colley was a kind and sincere woman.

“Well,” she put her hand on Amelia’s shoulder, “Just be sure he is back by Thursday. I know he wouldn’t want to miss our annual Harvest costume party!” Parties were rare at the schoolhouse, so everyone usually made an effort to go.

“Oh. Then—-alright.” Amelia was faking her smile. She was indeed, surprised. Alice, being amazed as well asked, “What’s the matter, ma’am? Ain’t you gonna punish my brother?”

“No, Alice,” Mrs. Colley chuckled, “I believe I have punished him enough for the day!”

Thursday had finally come, and the twins were excited! So excited. Kacie told her sister she was going to wear her Aviator hat. “Oh, don’t be ridiculous!” Lacie sighed, but Kacie didn’t seem to understand. “Oh, come now, Lacie. It’s Harvest time! Why don’t you wear yours?” By the time the twins went out the door into the crisp autumn evening, they both were wearing their Aviator hats!

They met Beth at the end of the road, where she, too, was wearing a rather comical hat. “Oh, how adventurous you two look!” she exclaimed. The twins and Beth lived three miles from the schoolhouse. Their greatest fear was coming back from the party through the tree-lined grove near the cemetery—–on the darkest, scariest night of the harvest. There was no telling what would pop up out of the shadows after dark.

“Now, I know there are no such things as ghosts, but how can you be sure?” Beth quietly asked. They were about to go through the bright and sunny tree-lined grove that would turn into Haunted Grove at dusk. “Well, I-I’m not sure, but one night I looked out my window and saw this gossamer-looking creature floating around in these woods, screaming as if it were in such horrible pain. I bet it was a ghost from Bradley’s cemetery over there.” Beth, hearing this bit of scary news, hid behind Lacie.

“Really?” Kacie, on the other hand, had no fear whatsoever. “Oh, come now! Be realistic won’t you? I do not see a single gossamer-looking thing anywhere, sis! Now come on! We are going to miss the party and we will have to face this so-called Haunted Grove in the dark!” Kacie, being fearless, marched through the grove as if she were leading a parade.

When the girls had arrived at the schoolhouse, there were dozens of children wearing costumes of something festive for the occasion. But Donald, Amelia and Alice. just had on their regular, everyday school clothes. “Hey, don’t worry. You guys look good enough to scare anyone!” Terry snickered as he served himself a big piece of chocolate cake.

“Count Dracula,” Lacie whispered to Beth, “That’s who he is.”

Mrs. Colley noticed the girls had arrived at the scene and she came to them. “Oh, it’s so good to see you all! Would you like some cake?” There were so many treats on the table, and they looked delicious. “Here you are,” Mrs. Colley handed each girl a slice of cake. “Oh, I need to get the Pershing children some!” Amelia and Alice grabbed a fork and ate their pieces of cake, but Donald took out his handkerchief and wrapped it tightly around his slice of cake.

“What’s the matter, Rebel? You too good to have your cake and eat it too?” Terry joked. Donald was uncomfortable already. “No. I’m saving it…..for……never mind.”

Lacie didn’t understand Donald. He seemed as if he wanted attention constantly, and yet, at other times, it seemed he wanted to just blend into the woodwork. But Beth said, “You know, we really need to meet him and find out about him instead of writing out his character in our imaginations like a storybook.” Deep down inside, Lacie knew her friend was right. But she didn’t want to admit to herself that she was wrong. She hated to be wrong!

“Well,” Lacie finally said, “why don’t we? But I am warning you, Beth, that boy is going to be a big problem in out school!”

Beth , being such a kind and considerate person, greeted Donald with her cheerful and jolly smile with Lacie dragging along behind her. “Hello there. I don’t believe we have introduced ourselves,” Beth curtsied, and Lacie rolled her eyes, “I am Bethany Marie Wheeler, but you may call me Beth.” She paused and waited for Lacie, who had gotten distracted by some other kids playing across the way. Beth hit Lacie in the ribs with her elbow and smiled again.

“Ow! Oh, yeah, and I am Miss Winters.”

“Nice to meet y’uns. I guess you know my name. I didn’t catch yours. Is it Lace?”

Donald did in fact seem like a rather nice person, but Lacie didn’t want to take any chances. “It’s Lacie, and that is what you may call me.”

After Beth and Lacie raced back to the willow tree in the school yard, Beth sighed, “You know, he does seem alright. He is much better than the description you painted!”

But Lacie didn’t think her best friend was all that funny. “Oh, really, Beth! I know he is up to something. I can just feel it!” But even to Lacie it seemed too nice an evening to spoil with bad feelings about other people.

“You know,” Beth giggled, “Sometimes romance begins in the strangest ways. I wouldn’t be surprised, when you grow up, if you marry the man.” Lacie was not in the mood for this kind of humor.”

Finally, the party was over, and the twins and Beth were strolling down the road. “Huh!” Kacie looked up at the sky, “Imagine that? It looks as if it will be dark by the time we hit—–The Haunted Grove!”

Beth was worried half to death. “Oh, no! I hope we don’t run into anything scary. I mean—the dark is scary enough as it is!”

Kacie was right. The moon had just come upon the girls when they saw the cemetery sign and the tree-lined grove up ahead. “Okay, you big chickens, let’s go.” Kacie began to walk through the silent grove. Of course Beth and Lacie didn’t want to stay behind, so they slowly followed Kacie through the Haunted Grove.

They were just about through the grove when they suddenly heard a loud and haunting wail. “Ohhhhhh!” Beth exclaimed, “It’s the gossamer-looking creature! Oh, I can’t look!” She hid behind Lacie and Kacie, who were a bit frightened as well. The noise kept getting louder and louder, coming closer each minute, when, all of a sudden, they saw something white…sort of a floating cape. “It is the gossamer creature!” Beth screamed.

Suddenly, there was a snickering sound and the girls recognized the laughing voice. It was Terry, hiding up in a tree and dangling the sheet. “Haha. Man, girls are crazy! You should have seen your faces!”

But Beth was angry. She grimaced and stomped over to the tree. Looking up, she shouted, “You don’t know how anxious we are to get home, and then you show up! I do believe you are a fine haunting monster.” For once in his life, Terry was speechless, and the girls walked on.

“What is he doing down here? He doesn’t even live down this road!” Lacie asked.

Beth shrugged. “I know what he’s about! He wanted to scare me. He knows how much I am afraid of noises in the night!” Knowing Terry, Beth was probably right. He loved to pick on kids who lacked confidence in something or expressed fears.

“Someday,” Kacie shook her head, “…just someday I am going to retaliate and he will learn his lesson. I sure wish his parents would teach him with a hickory switch!” How relieved Lacie and Beth were when they reached the and of the Haunted Grove.

“Well!” Beth sighed, “I’m glad to see that scary place behind us! I was getting a bit worried. Where are we? I can’t see a thing!” Lacie shaded her eyes from the bright moonlight. Far ahead were Mrs. Colley, Caleb, Hannah and their friend Ben in a carriage.

“Mrs. Colley!” Lacie exclaimed, “Wait up!” The three girls rushed to their friends.
“Why hello!” Mrs. Colley’s carriage came to a halt. “Hop on. What are you girls still doing out this time of night?” Lacie looked at the ground. “Well….we kind-of stayed a bit too late at the party. But we sure enjoyed it!”

Hannah, who had been listening to the conversation, asked, “So, how do y’all like the Pershing’s? I sure do!”

Beth answered, “Yes, I do, too…even their brother, unlike like some people I know who won’t give him a chance…” she looked at Lacie.

“Oh?” Mrs. Colley raised her eyebrows, “do you know someone who has mixed feelings about Donald?” Firstly, she looked at her children, then at Ben, then the girls. How embarrassed Lacie was when, by the looks on everyone’s faces, they came to know that she was the one who wished Donald had never come!

“Why do you not like Donald?” Hannah asked.

“I didn’t say I didn’t like him, I am just afraid he is going to be a bigger troublemaker than Terry. “

“Oh, I don’t know if there could be anyone worse than Terry!” Caleb laughed. “You should give him a chance, Lacie. Remember what my dad often says in his sermons:
Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”

That Caleb. He was always quoting Bible verses in conversation. Hannah and Ben, too. Caleb and Ben had a knack for quoting scriptures, so everyone who knew them predicted they would grow up to be evangelists. Lacie thought about that as Mrs. Colley volunteered to take the girls home in her carriage.

Topics for Discussion:

1. What is “hospitality”? Use a dictionary to define the word. How do you know that Lacie was a person who would be good at hospitality?

2. What does 1 Peter 4:9 say about our use of hospitality? Which girl do you think was a bit more “grudging” with her hospitality?

3. Use your dictionary again to define the word “prejudiced. There are lots of different ways we can pre-judge people in a way that is unfair and displeases God. Can you list some ways? Have you ever been prejudiced against someone before really knowing him or her?

4. Do you know anyone who hates to be wrong like Lacie? What does James 5:16 tell us we should do when we are wrong? Do you do this? Do you pray for others when they confess to you?

5. Once again, using your dictionary, write a definition of “retaliate.” Now turn to Romans 12:19, Whose job is it to retaliate?

6. According to verse 20, what is our responsibility toward those who may mistreat us?

Guest Writer: Ally Cole

Category : Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

This installment of “Bless Your Heart” is different from any previous posts. During the past three years or so, I have come to know a budding young writer named Ally L. Cole. Ally lives in Missouri and is thirteen years old. She loves to sing and play the guitar and has a keen interest in all things World War Two. She’s home-schooled, loves her co-op group and her family in the Lord. She loves her pot-bellied pig (in a different way, of course) and she doesn’t like to eat pork (Now why does she not like bacon?). She’s an inventor, artist, paintball prodigy and amateur movie producer. She loves Polishing the Pulpit and this year she plans to attend Horizons at FHU.

I’d like to share with you, over the next few installments, one of her stories. Some of you moms (with kids around the ages of 7-12) might want to read this tonight for your Family Bible Time. Let me know if your children enjoy it and we may share another story at a later date. Find the topics for discussion at the end of each segment. You may want to save those for a second night or maybe even discuss them for the next two or three nights. May God bless Ally and all of the children and teens who are growing up in Him! Thanks for the story, Ally! Remember me, your first publisher, when you are rich and famous!

SCHOOL DAYS
Chapter One

Fall had come upon the town of Brixey before anyone knew it. The trees were dressed in yellows, oranges, and reds. The day was bright and sunny for the Winters twins, Lacie and Kacie and their best friend Beth. The three had turned ten in the spring of 1935, and they were in the fifth grade at school. That was where the girls were headed. Their teacher, Mrs. Colley, had reminded them the previous day to be at school earlier the next day because there were going to be some new pupils. “I wonder who they are?” Beth asked Lacie. “I hope they are not just a bunch of boys come to dip my curls in inkwells! My mother would have a fit.”Beth had such a vivid imagination.

Lacie added, “Well, I suppose a bunch of boys would be alright, just so long as they don’t cause any trouble.”

When the three arrived at the schoolhouse, the richest kids in town were coming down the road: Terry and Jeanette Mauldin. “Now there’s some troublemakers right there!” Kacie quietly said. Terry and Jeanette had been attending the Brixey schoolhouse ever since Mrs. Colley established it, and they both were as mean as snakes. Inside the schoolhouse in their desks were Terry and Jeanette, Mrs. Colley’s children, Caleb and Hannah, and three kids that neither of the girls had ever seen before. There was a girl with long strawberry-blond braids and freckles, and beside her was an even younger girl with long blond braids and dimples. Far on their right was another new student; an unassuming boy.

“Well,” Lacie laughed, “at least it’s only one boy to dip your curls in an inkwell, Beth!”

After all of the pupils had arrived and everyone was seated, Mrs. Colley strode to the stage and clasped her hands. “Class, this is a special day. I am so happy to announce that we have three new students. Please welcome Donald, Amelia and Alice Pershing.”

The class began to applaud, but Terry interrupted. “Oh, puh-leeze, Mrs. Colley,” he said with a smirk as he stood. “Do these people really need an introduction?”

Of course, Terry was just being ornery, and Mrs. Colley knew it. “Hush, Terry. I want all of you to remember my golden rule: Treat everyone just as you want to be treated yourself.”

Suddenly Hannah raised her hand. “Um…..Mother?”

“Yes, Hannah what is it?” Mrs. Colley said.

“Would it be alright if Caleb and I go and get a drink of water? We won’t be long.”

Mrs. Colley sighed. “I suppose! But please, don’t take all day, will you?”

The two siblings hurried out the door, and Mrs. Colley went on. “Now, are there any questions you would like to ask Donald, Amelia or Alice?” Beth stood and nodded. “Yes, ma’am. Amelia, do you like to read books?”

“Oh, indeed I do!” Amelia smiled, “especially the fantasy kind.”

Mrs. Colley was glad to hear that someone was interested in the Pershing’s. “Fine, now is there anyone else?… Oh, where are those two children of mine! Class, please continue with your questions. I will be back in a moment with Caleb and Hannah. I didn’t think it would take that long to get a drink of water!” After she rushed down the aisle and out the door, Terry had a look of mischief on his face that meant he was up to something.

“Hey David, where do you live?”

“It-it’s Donald,” he said, “and we ain’t livin’ far from here. On a farm.”

“Oh.” Terry made his way to Donald’s desk. “I was just wondering, since you sure look like you’re homeless. And really, you can do away with that southern accent, because none of us here talk like that!”

He began snickering and trying to talk as if he were from the south, but in a very sarcastic way.

“Yeah,” Donald said, “I can tell you ain’t from around here. I reckon you’re from…..Illinois maybe?”

“How did you know!?!?!” Jeanette gasped,

Terry was surprised, too. “Yeah, how did you know? Oh, you probably saw my dad’s bank there one day while you were hopping trains!” Lacie could tell Donald was a bit fed up with Terry, but who wasn’t?

But Terry just kept right on making things worse. “Ohhh…. You’re a Rebel! That means your family was on the Confederate side? Well! I am for the Union!” That was when the trouble really began. Terry kept right on making fun of Donald’s strong southern accent. After a while, Donald couldn’t take it any longer.

Just as Mrs. Colley and her children were coming back inside Donald punched Terry in the eye.

“What on earth!?” Mrs. Colley exclaimed. “Donald, come to me this minute!” Donald gasped and looked at her sheepishly. “Now, what ever made you do such a dreadful thing as this?”

“Wehh-yull ma’am, that kid there was makin’ fun about my bein’ from the south. And I——I guess I couldn’t control my anger.”

Mrs. Colley was disappointed in her new student. “Donald, I am afraid I am going to have to send you home with a note. You should not have done that to Terry.” “Yes, ma’am,” Donald stared at the ground, “I know. It’s just that—“

“Oh, come on, Mrs. Colley! What about me? Look at what this country bumpkin did to my eye!”

But Mrs. Colley knew Terry a little too well. “Now Terry, I am tired of your attitude for the day. I may even send you home with a note as well.” The two boys were sent back to their desks.

Lacie liked Amelia and Alice, but there was no way she would ever be friends with Donald!

Let’s think about this:

1. Why is it important to be especially nice to people who may be new in a situation? Have you ever been the new person at school or in a class at church? What are some things that might make a new person uncomfortable? Read Acts 9: 1-27 and see what Barnabas did for a person who was new to the Christians at Jerusalem.

2. Why would the author (Ally) tell us that certain children were “mean as snakes”? Where, do you suppose, that expression originated? Why do we think of snakes as being mean? Can you think of a biblical reason why we think about snakes as being mean? Find some passages in the Bible that speak of snakes or serpents.

3. Do you know anyone who likes to cause trouble like Terry? Jesus said, “Blessed are the peacemakers,” (Matthew 5:9). How was Terry’s behavior causing trouble rather than making peace? Ephesians 4: 31 says we are to put away clamor or drama from our lives? Do you think Terry’s behavior was rather dramatic when he interrupted the applause of the class? Do you know any drama queens? How can you tell if a girl is a drama queen? Is a drama queen a peacemaker or a trouble-causer? Which one is called a child of God in Matthew 5:9? Can you find a verse that tells us to be at peace with all men whenever it is possible? Use a concordance and see if you can find that verse.

4. Find the Golden Rule in your Bible and copy it on to an index card. Place this card on your refrigerator in a place where you will see it several times each day.

5. What are some of the reasons people make fun of other people? Have you ever met anyone who liked to make fun of other people? How should you react when someone is making fun of somebody? Is it really okay to laugh when someone is being mocked or ridiculed? Who is the most well-known person in the New Testament who was mocked? Who is it that we can never successfully mock? (See Galatians 6:7). Is mocking (making fun of) another person following the golden rule? Explain.

6. Was it okay for Donald to hit Terry? Is it ever okay for me to become angry and hit someone? In Titus 1:7 and I Timothy 3:3 we find that elders in the church are not to be strikers (or fighters). Why would it be important for an elder to be able to control his temper? Did Jesus ever hit anyone? Did anyone ever hit Jesus? If you think so, can you find that account in the Bible?

7. Is it possible to be angry and yet not sin? (See Ephesians 4:26.) What should we not allow to happen while we are angry?

More than a Teddy Graham and Blue Jello

Category : Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

It’s one of the most frequently asked questions I see on sites for Christian women and one I hear most in groups of real live in-person Christian women, so today I want to share one newly discovered answer to the question: “Does anybody know of any resources with great ideas for teaching toddlers?

I do! I always answer with “anything from Palma Smiley,” (you gotta be great with kids with a name like Smiley!) but tonight, I ran across a site maintained by three good friends: Kim Scott, Sandy Thompson and Becky Welch. Can I just say they have as much creativity in their little pinky fingers as I probably have in my whole body?! While I am sure their ideas may sometimes be tweaked or adapted from something they saw somewhere else (I mean, who can copyright marshmallows or bananas?), their inexpensive, Bible-themed snacks and colorful re-usable take-homes are way better than anything packaged curriculum gurus ever dreamed up. So take a look at http://bibleschoolteachers.blogspot.com. You’ll see all sorts of ideas that are affordable, adaptable and adorable. Most of all they are memorable. While kids are swallowing a teddy graham standing on blue jello, they are ingesting something far more important: the truth that Jesus walked on the water.

So kudos today to Kim, Sandy and Becky and to all of you Bible class teachers who are consistently going the extra mile to put the word in small people with big hearts. You are growing elders and deacons and soul winners.  You are training your grandchildren’s Bible class teachers.

Please Take Nine Minutes and Thirty-Eight Seconds for the Profound!

Category : Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

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