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Audio Now AvailableAudio Now Available Listen Now! Tradition in Worship: Are We Too Bound? http://www.talkshoe.com/tc/112808 *This podcast is for women, by women. Also available on iTunes.

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SPRING WEDDING SPECIAL!SPRING WEDDING SPECIAL! If you are like the Colleys, you have several wedding gifts to buy or make this spring. Lots of Colley House customers are ordering multiples of the marriage book "You're Singing My Song" for wedding showers this year. So here's a little help: Spring Wedding Special! You're Singing My Song Buy three copies and get...

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NEW Book on Homeschooling NEW Book on Homeschooling Available NOW! First of all, it’s not an indictment against those who have made or will make another choice. Secondly, it’s surely not the work of an author who thinks she has arrived at the pinnacle of the homeschooling climb. (How can anyone ever think she knows everything about a phenomenon that’s as old as...

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Digger Doug’s Underground Rocks by Apologetics PressDigger Doug’s Underground Rocks by Apologetics Press Songs written and performed by Caleb Colley. Digger Doug’s Underground Rocks is not for worship/devotional use. Join Digger Doug and Iguana Don for a rockin’ treat! Digger Doug’s Underground Rocks, a new music CD from Apologetics Press, is a collection of fun songs about science for kids. Twelve original songs...

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Picking Melons and Mates by Cindy ColleyPicking Melons and Mates by Cindy Colley Here it is! The children's book that's for toddlers and teens about choosing wisely. It's especially about using godly wisdom when it's time to choose a mate for life. The best thing about this book is that it has a three-week Family Bible Time Guide in the back that any parent can easily follow. The first in a Family Bible...

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Always Plan B?

Category : Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

PLANBSurely not.You mean your 15-year-old can go to WalMart and buy a drug to abort the baby she may have conceived when she had sex last night?…She can just pick this up without a prescription? Surely not.

That would be a scenario for some socially “progressive” area of the world like Sweden or the Netherlands, or maybe even the UK. Surely.

If such an availability has “slipped by” the authorities, then surely this item will quickly be taken off the shelves and moms across America can be assured that they have authority over the availability of contraceptives for their children who can’t even drive yet. Especially chemical contraceptives. Surely.

She can’t buy a cigarette, but she can buy a morning-after contraceptive with a list of possible side effects as long as your arm? …She can buy this drug that causes gastrointestinal bleeding in more that one out of every ten users? Seriously?

That’s the world in which your kids are growing up. That’s the world of my future grandchildren. Our president likes this new piece of legislation, but lots of people in our country feel that girls even younger should have full access to the Plan B pill. For real.

My children cannot recall a time when abortion in our country was illegal. Apparently my grandchildren will never know a time when chemical abortions were not accessible without parental consent to minors. When I was fifteen, I doubt if I knew what abortion was. It had only been legal for a year. It was still quite rare. There were no purely chemical abortions. I’m just in my early fifties. It really hasn’t been that long. How many will have died when my daughter reaches fifty? At the current rate, perhaps over 75 million that we can document, but there’s no telling (or even knowing) how many chemical abortions are occurring annually.

The words “every day” in the following video are haunting. The casual laughter on the part of the abortion worker is nails-on-the-chalkboard to my very soul. I can hardly bear to hear it. Dr. Kermit Gosnell is surely not alone in his attempt to normalize infanticide. But what’s the difference between that baby inside the mother and the same child just after a botched abortion (yielding a live birth)? Nothing medically. Nothing genetically. Nothing spiritually. Nothing physically. The only difference is environmental. One is IN the passage and is subject to being dismembered and vacuumed out. The other has made the passage and, if alive, is subject to being rushed by ambulance to the hospital for emergency life-saving medical treatment. One is subject to extreme measures to make sure death occurs at the hand of a doctor. The other is subject to extreme measure to make sure it doesn’t. Tell me is this thing we’re trying to kill in the womb alive? Give it a minute to exit and see if the ambulance driver, the emergency room worker, the NICU nurse and the pediatric specialist think so. Give me a break, America!

If you can watch this without discomfort, you should be placed on a list of list of potential terrorists. Yes. I really think so. You have a lot of stomach for extreme violence toward innocent people.

Happy Anniversary, Baby?

Category : Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

This really doesn’t need a commentary. I know that when you watch it, you will be as disturbed as was I about this PSA from the Center for Reproductive Rights on the anniversary of Roe vs. Wade. It made my stomach churn as I was lying in bed last night…remembering the way he said the word “baby” no less than five times. It’s not just a commentary on the decision those men made 40 years ago in that relatively isolated courtroom. It’s about how the underbelly of a good nation has slowly turned into the mainstream of a nation gone awry.

This anniversary doesn’t look so good at all if one glances in the trash bin at abortion clinics and sees blood and broken limbs and hearts that were beating only a few hours ago. It doesn’t look so good when one meets Gianna Jessen, the victorious victim of a botched abortion. It doesn’t look so good to me when I counsel with women who are still suffering as moms and wives and sisters and daughters years down the road after they made the biggest mistake of their young lives and ended life in their own wombs. I try not to say the word “murdered” to these tortured women, but they always say it themselves. It doesn’t look so good when you look at a map of America and understand that the population we have killed is greater than the combined populations of 17 of our country’s heartland states. It doesn’t look so good when you think about hospital workers who have actually held tiny living, breathing, discarded babies until they breathed their last. It’s just not pretty when you try to wrap your mind around 55 million-plus dead people. It’s surely not pretty when you know our tax dollars have enabled, to a large extent, this human massacre. How can we, as a nation, continue to experience the longsuffering forbearance of God when we routinely murder a million babies or more each year?

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Watch and weep. Then work– in your small way in your small world. Surely there is something you can do for the innocents who have no way to help themselves.

The Unchanging Truth about Abortion

Category : Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

In recent weeks, and especially since last Tuesday, the point has been recurring to me that God’s people should have been speaking their values more frequently and more loudly for the past four decades. Perhaps if we had been more vocal back when it was fairly easy and acceptable to speak about God’s will for man, people with moral virtue would have remained the majority in America. We often knew the right things to do and some even practiced them in our homes, but most of us have surely been remiss in expressing truth at the crucial times and to the people who most needed to hear. You are aware, as am I, that when good people do nothing, evil wins by default.

Recently I ran across the following manuscript of a speech given by my son Caleb when he was in high school. With this speech, he represented the state of Tennessee at the conference of The National Right to Life. He was blessed, thereafter, to be able to speak this message in many venues. Whenever I reread it, I am reminded of the responsibility that’s ours not only to believe truth, but to promote it daily with our spoken and written words, with our monetary gifts and with every ability to influence others. This is especially true when our influence has the propensity to save innocent lives.

So today I give you Caleb Colley in a retro-message from his high school days. But, as he says…”Truth doesn’t change.”

I remember the day that I lost my innocence about universal parental love. See, in my kindergarten mind, I thought all babies had families who couldn’t wait for them to be born. After all, when I was three years old, the upcoming birth of my baby sister was the topic of much delightful discussion, from dinner-table chats to deep prayer for her safety and health.

The early stages of childhood, for me, were an amazing adventure of sharing, learning, and vibrant living. So, by the time I was in kindergarten, it still hadn’t occurred to me that there could be innocent babies who, because of choices made by their mothers, were not even given the chance to experience growing up.

Then that day came. One afternoon, my family and I went to a busy metro area of a large city and stood in a long line of people. We were all holding up signs, and I remember that I heard my parents say things about ‘abortion.’ As I didn’t have any idea what was going on, it was only natural for my simple, childish questions to come. And I got answers. No, some of the answers about specific abortion procedures weren’t too graphic, but I learned enough on that day to let me know that I hated abortion.

My first question was quickly crafted. “What is abortion?” My parents explained to me that abortion was when an expectant mother decided she didn’t want to have her baby, and so the baby was killed—the end of my innocence. As I have gotten a little older, I have learned that there are various, very advanced methods of taking young and innocent human life. One common procedure is called “suction abortion.” This method is used during the first three months of pregnancy. Another is called “dilation and extraction,” a procedure only used after thirteen weeks of pregnancy. In dilation and extraction, the unborn child is dismembered with plier-like forceps. Partial-birth abortions are used from the fourth month through the end of the ninth month of pregnancy. You know, these are the ones that actually deflate the brains of babies —even full-term babies who’ve already traveled through the birth canal and have even begun their exit. So vicious is this procedure that twice in the last decade, both houses of our legislature have banned this kind of abortion only to have that ban vetoed by a pro-abortion president. These late-term abortions are regularly used to kill healthy babies who, it has been scientifically proven, pose no danger or threat to their mother. Saline amniocentesis is used after sixteen weeks, and it is a process of injecting a concentrated salt solution into the amniotic fluid. The baby breathes and swallows it and dies over an hour later of acute salt poisoning. There are at least four other common methods of abortion, including chemical abortions such as the kind women induce when they take the new abortion pill, RU-486.

At five years old, I had no idea how available abortion was for a mother who chose death instead of birth. I hadn’t yet considered the fact that she could do it without anybody but the doctor, his assistants, and the Lord knowing it even ever happened. Amazing how a procedure so private and one so vaguely understood by a young woman or teenager could create such large ghosts of guilt later in life.

Another question followed inevitably. “Why would a mom want to kill her baby?” Maybe she is not ready for the way becoming a parent will change her life; it would be hard to keep her job, continue her education and care for her other children, or she can’t afford a baby. The list goes on. In rare cases, health issues may even be a concern.

But really, let’s be honest. Right now, 95% of all abortions are convenience abortions. Oh, lots of reasons may be on her mental list, but they can likely all be summarized by the word inconvenient.

So next I asked, “What can I do to try to change the mother’s mind?” The answer for me when I was five years old was that we can be heard in those city-wide life chains. We can tell young women about responsible choices like adoption. We can pray for our leaders who can make big decisions to limit and hopefully one day stop the killing. We can love and respect all human life, because life doesn’t have to be productive to society to be sacred.

Now I’m older, and things are a little different. I can get involved in church and community programs that are actively and non-violently protesting to government officials and against abortion providers. I can be heard in letters to news editors. And I can still offer my prayers to the Almighty God that He will give the cause strength and growth, and that He will help us all to be ready to defend innocent life—a principle at the very heart of liberty in this country.

I was five. I hadn’t yet been introduced to many of the horrors of a grown-up world. I was five. I could comprehend simple truths my parents were teaching me like, “Never pick on someone because he’s small,” and “The right thing may not always be the easiest thing.” I learned amazingly powerful and simple lessons from Scripture, like, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” When I was five, I also was being introduced to one of my favorite authors. You know him too. He’s Doctor Seuss, and you’ve probably read some of his practical life-lessons for kids, like this one from Yertle The Turtle: “I know, up on top you are seeing great sights, but down at the bottom, we too should have rights.” In Horton Hears a Who!, Dr. Seuss dutifully explained that “a person’s a person no matter how small.” You see, statistics change. Laws change. Procedures change and evolve, but the simple truths are still the same as when I was five. Truth doesn’t evolve with society. Truth is not flexible. It is eternal. But we must all personally care about truth. It was Dr. Seuss who said, in The Lorax, “Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It’s not.”

Gender Selection Abortion

Category : Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

Meet my friend Isaiah. Here’s his latest photo.

As you may notice, he still lives in what should be the safest environment in the world…his sweet mother’s womb. As you look at the photo, you are seeing a baby at a gestational age of 25 weeks. His mother was 27 weeks along in her pregnancy. Isaiah weighs just over two pounds in the photos and is a little over a foot long. As you can see, from the following pictures, he’s already being expressive like his father. What you can’t tell is that he looks just like his mother. But, trust me….He does. He’s perfectly formed, perfectly designed, perfectly lovable.

When these photos were taken, it had only been a few short weeks since Isaiah’s mom and dad learned that he was a boy. Now that they know, a boy is what they’re all about. But prior to the revelation of gender, they could have gotten just as excited about ribbons and bows and sugar and spice. Isaiah’s mom and dad are just like all other loving Christian parents. They are praising God for the amazing blessing of life that began in the womb at the point of conception.

But not all parents are like Isaiah’s parents. Some parents don’t want a girl. In fact, some parents are so set on having a boy that they are willing to violently terminate the life of a girl in the latter stages of pregnancy. LifeNews recently did some undercover work in the offices of Planned Parenthood in Austin, Texas to find out just how far the organization would go in not only providing the sex-selection abortion, but also in making sure the ultrasound for gender confirmation is provided by your tax dollars. Here is that shocking office visit. The worst part about it is that it normalizes the whole process of gender-selection abortion, making it seem so very routine and sterile, as if it’s just an every day occurrence. Perhaps it is.

If watching that video did not disturb you, I do not know how to appeal to your moral senses. A few days ago the House of Representatives voted on a bill to ban gender selection abortions in the United States. Tragically, the bill did not pass. Our President voiced his opposition to the bill. Not surprisingly, he supports these late-term gender selection abortions under the big umbrella of “women’s rights”. And, never mind that it’s baby girls who are the victims in the genocide. Feminists want to end the “discrimination against women” by protecting their “right” to kill baby girls. Really? Does anybody else see a blatant inconsistency in Planned Parenthood logic? Bringing the worldwide genocide of baby girls to America under the auspices of “rights for females” is disingenuous, to say the least.

NOW (The National Organization for Women) is strongly urging its supporters to voice their disapproval to the representatives who sponsored and voted for the failed House bill. I am now voicing mine to those who defeated the bill. I am voicing mine in November for the most notable opponent of the bill.

Take one more look at Isaiah. Yep. It’s like the lady at Planned Parenthood said. “His brain is developed. Everything is developed.” She was right. The unborn version of Isaiah has a beating heart, expresses emotion, feels pain, and responds to touch and to sound. He is very much alive. In fact, Isaiah is already capable of living outside his mother’s womb. But he needs his mother, as he finishes up his short stay in the womb, for oxygen and nutrition.

Have you thought about the fact, though, that there is a very real sense in which Isaiah will need his mother even more once he exits the womb? When he exits the womb, he will suddenly need more of her voluntary muscles and less of her involuntary ones. He will need her arms to cradle him, her lips to kiss him, her hands to caress him (and change his diapers), her breasts to feed him, and her voice to soothe him. Thank God that we, as a nation, are not yet willing to put the babies who need the voluntary muscles to death just because they are not the preferred gender. But, as I marvel at Isaiah, I am so sorry for our national sin…that we’ve been willing to kill the unborn Isaiahs…the ones who only need the involuntary muscles–for lots of reasons. Why is it that mothers can withhold the involuntary, making the womb the most dangerous place in America, for babies? It’s because they are selfish…too selfish to exert their voluntary muscles for the little lives they’ve conceived…the little lives that are their own children.

It was another Isaiah who said these words about the eternal Source of life in the womb:

“Thus saith the LORD, thy redeemer, and he that formed thee from the womb, I am the LORD that maketh all things; that stretcheth forth the heavens alone; that spreadeth abroad the earth by myself…” (Isaiah 44:24)

He has formed baby Isaiah. He who sees the sparrow (Matthew 10:29) when it falls is aware of every life destroyed in the womb. There will be a day of reckoning with this One who has the power that “spreads abroad the earth” by himself…the One who claims vengeance (Romans 12:19) and promises to repay. May we seek His mercy while there is yet time.

October Baby

Category : Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

It’s hard to blog when you’re bogged. Sometimes I get bogged down, even with a mirage of good things, blessings even, that are occurring all around me. This weekend, I will be speaking for the ladies seminar at the Nettleton church in Jonesboro, Arkansas. I will be talking about the peace that Christ promised his apostles. What was He describing when He spoke of peace in the tumultuous world they were about to try to saturate with the good news of Christ, even after this Christ was killed as a criminal outside the city of Jerusalem? I think the lesson will be tailor-made for me! I need this study.

This morning I am praying for my friend, Tammy, who is very ill. I am praying for baby James, who is in a very critical period following a huge heart surgery. I am praying for my dad, who is making some huge steps toward independence these days after three months of recovery from a difficult illness. I am praying for some kids who are trying very hard to gain scholarships at a Christian university, because it will make the difference in their being able to attend, or their staying home and attending local colleges; colleges void of the Good News and void of an environment that fosters Christian marriages. I’m praying for lots of sick people in our local congregation. I’m praying for the course of the gospel through the lives of His people and through the works of faithful churches, and especially for our faithful elders. God is very good…sometimes so good that my mind races in all different blessed directions.

Next week will conclude the Digging Deep study of the gospels. Next Monday, I plan to post a sort of summary of the parables study. Because I’m not sure how long the window of opportunity for this will be, though, today, I want to recommend that you see a movie. It’s called “October Baby” and Glenn and I saw it in Charleston last week. It was riveting, but most importantly, it was a timely fictional depiction of some events that are, all too often, not entirely fictional in the world around us. It’s about the after-effects of a botched abortion and one girl’s coming to terms with the regrettable circumstances of her birth. More importantly, it sort of checks the pulse of our nation in which there are two protection agendas–one of protecting a mother’s “reproductive rights” and one of protecting life in the womb. That’s the reason the movie has raised the ire of those who are abortion proponents. That’s the reason I hope you will see it. That’s the reason it’s not in every market across the US and that’s the very reason I hope it will be a successful film. I wish we were a nation in which a film like this could be a blockbuster. See it if you can. (Note: While this movie is clean and appropriate for your family, my recommendation does not necessarily mean I endorse every single detail of the film.)

Keep praying. There’s a lot of goodness in the world, but it often seems the immoral and reckless has a way of being blatant and “in your face.” Remember the war has already been won, though. It’s the battles between now and the victory celebration that can still claim casualties for the defeated prince of darkness.

Studying with a Heroine

Category : Bless Your Heart by Cindy Colley

I had a Bible study today with a woman who becomes dearer to me each time we study. I believe she will obey the gospel, but as we struggle to communicate through our language barriers (she is a native of El Salvador), I think I am learning as much as she is. My friend left El Salvador because her first husband was guilty of some very serious sins, including adultery. She has settled into an apartment near my home. She has since met and married a hard-working man who is also here from South America on a work visa. They have a beautiful baby, who makes our studies together lots of fun for me.

My friend (I will call her Nora) is often doing favors for neighbors who live all around her. She has a valid driver’s license and so neighbors who do not have transportation often call on her to take them to the grocery store or to the doctor’s office. One day recently, a neighbor, who was pregnant, asked her for a ride to a doctor appointment. She obliged and they were off to the specified address. But when Nora pulled up to the clinic, she was shocked to learn that she had brought her neighbor to an abortion clinic. Nora refused to drop the woman off at the clinic. She knew that if she provided the transportation to the clinic, she would share in the responsibility for the death of the baby. Instead of leaving her neighbor there for the procedure to be done, she made sure her neighbor got the appropriate information from the pro-life protesters who were peacefully approaching the entrants to the clinic in hopes of saving babies from the horrible procedures occurring inside. She also repeatedly told her friend that she would gladly raise the baby for her, if she would only spare the baby’s life.

My friend Nora is far from being a rich person. She struggles along with her husband to make ends meet. On this day the pro-life representative at the clinic offered Nora some money for taking the expectant mom back home after convincing her to at least postpone the abortion. Nora refused the money because she did not want to profit financially from her conscience-based decision. The woman was insistent, though, and Nora finally accepted the money. She brought it to worship the next Sunday and gave it to the church.

I left the Bible study today with a lot of respect for Nora. In my book, she was a heroine that day. She saved a life. She boldly spoke up for the one who could not be heard.

Nora is very close to the kingdom. Will you pray for our studies? Will you pray for wisdom on my part as we spend time in God’s Word? I hope that when I speak about the privilege of studying the Word with someone like Nora, it does not sound self -serving.  After all, who am I to be able to have the Word of the Almighty God pass through my lips on Its way to a needy soul?  I am nothing but a needy soul, myself. I am so unworthy to be able to share the news with Nora that, while she saved innocent life, Christ died for us, the ungodly, while we were yet sinners (Romans 5:6-8). But I am so thankful for this good news.